Certainly we’ve all heard about the importance of loving others. Scripture is replete with admonitions to love others. But Scripture says to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37). Think about this. What if we loved our neighbor in ways we often care for ourselves, with self-criticism, self-condemnation and inner harshness? Obviously this would be no way to treat another person. Might this Scripture imply that we are also to be loving and caring with ourselves? 

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