Many of us walk around with molten lava in our guts, those unfinished issues, unfinished feelings, unfinished attitudes seeking resolution. We know what they are, as unprocessed as they may be. We know the resentment we carry, the bitterness we hide in our heart hoping it will simply disappear. Take time today to make the unspoken be spoken. Ask your mate to sit down and have a ‘heart to heart’ talk. This takes courage and skill, but you will feel better when the issues are discussed and resolved. 

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and TwitterDr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.