Avoid continual concentration on what you're losing or being denied in a trial.  Try to think of what new opportunities this situation may bring, what you might learn from this obstacle, and what future happiness lies in store.

From It Takes Two to Tango by Gary and Norma Smalley.

All excerpts from It Takes Two to Tango are copyright 1997, Gary and Norma Smalley, and are used with permission.

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