Avoid the blame game.  Don't beat yourself up over mistakes you've made or personal losses or mistreatment you might have received.  If you can avoid shame and blame, your recovery will be much quicker.

From It Takes Two to Tango by Gary and Norma Smalley.

All excerpts from It Takes Two to Tango are copyright 1997, Gary and Norma Smalley, and are used with permission.

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