In the New
Testament a “blessing” we offer to a loved one is basically a prayer of
encouragement for them.
Blessing is
a verb used 44 times in the New Testament that means: “to praise [your
loved one], to celebrate [them] with praises [that] invoke [God’s] blessings
and consecrate [your loved one] with solemn prayers [that] ask God’s blessing
on [your loved one] to cause [them] to prosper, to make [them] happy, to bestow
blessings [that they be] favored by God.”
That
is why Peter says to the church so strongly, watch out for how you “rain down”
your words upon others.
Not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling,
but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may
inherit a blessing. (1 Peter 3:9)
So Peter basically says those who love with
Christ's power, “sow words of blessing and you will reap a harvest of
blessing.” What a powerful motivation to primarily use our words, mouths, and
voices to bless others in Christ's Name!
And that is what we get from nearly every one
of the 44 times the word “bless” is used in the New Testament (14 x in Luke).
Here are some of the key verses:
Blessing
often involves touching: "And He took them up in His arms, put His hands
on them, and blessed them." (Mark 10:16)
Blessing
often points to the future: "Then Simeon
blessed them, and said to Mary His mother, 'Behold, this Child is destined for the
fall and rising of many in Israel,
and for a sign which will be spoken against.'" (Luke 2:34)
Blessing
is usually hard but always very rewarding: “Bless those who curse you, and pray
for those who spitefully use you." (Luke 6:28)