Role Modeling by Tween Celebrities. According to TrendCentral, when Hannah Montana the Movie debuted in theatres in April, modesty as fashion trend became official. The Chicago Tribune (“Tween Style Takes a Modest Turn”) reported “star Miley Cyrus wasn't even allowed to wear leggings while the cameras were rolling. Spaghetti straps were verboten, as were bare bellies, micro minis, one-shouldered tanks and anything resembling a camisole.” Other tween pacesetters have also moved to modest apparel (notably iCarly and High School Musical.) When tween celebrities pronounce a blessing upon a fashion style by wearing it (be it Britney Spears a decade ago, or Miley Cyrus today), kids clamor to dress like their idols.
A Closing of the Generation Gap. Trendcentral reported recently, “tweens these days are much closer to their parents and are hyper-conscious of anything that could upset them. As the generation gap closes, tweens are truly looking to their parents for second opinions and are seeking parental approval in their clothing choices.”
I freely admit that I didn’t see this positive factor emerging. I don’t know if it’s a fleeting trend, or if the pendulum has truly swung toward an ongoing, overall improvement in parent-child relationships. I certainly hope for the latter. But, the result has been a pronounced movement towards more modest clothing.
Also, it’s worth noting that parents often have more influence on their tweens and teens than they realize. No matter what pop culture and retailers may say or do in the future, keep building positive relationships with your tweens and teens and don’t underestimate how much of an impact you really can have on your own kids.
So, modesty has made a comeback! It’s a rare happening these days when pop culture actually moves in a more conservative direction. Parents, utter a sigh of relief and enjoy the moment while it lasts!
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Published May 20, 2009
Jim Liebelt is a 20+ year youth ministry veteran and is the Senior Editor of Publications for HomeWord, including oversight of the "Good Advice Parent Newsletter," Today’s HomeWord daily devotional, and HomeWord’s Culture Brief. Jim is also a presenter for HomeWord's parent seminar, "Building Healthy Morals and Values." Jim joined the HomeWord staff in 1998, and has served over the years in various pastoral ministries, as a youth ministry and parenting seminar speaker, an adjunct youth ministry instructor at Gordon College, a national presenter for Group Magazine Live, and has served on the council of the New England Network of Youth Ministries.