Look in the mirror. You could be younger, thinner or smarter. Look in your medicine cabinet. Do you need uppers to make it through the day or tranquilizers to surf the nightly news?
Our world is always one push-button away from annihilation. If stocks plunge, nest eggs disappear. Antibiotic-resistant diseases loom ahead. Don’t even get me started discussing global warming, moral depravity or the disintegration of the family unit. Depressing and worrysome.
Negro slaves, brutally beaten, living in poverty, had no hope. Yet they had one coping mechanism. They focused on heaven. Life on earth was hell. But heaven….yes, heaven would be different! “Deep River, my home is over Jordan,” “Swing Low, Sweet Chariot-coming for to carry me home!” Negro spirituals expressed hope in a life beyond death. We can learn from them.
How can you become heavenly-minded and hopeful?
- Remember that eternal life starts now. Jesus said in John 17:3: “Now this is eternal life; that they may know You, the only eternal God and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” Jesus’ presence will fill you full of joy and pleasure (Psalm 16:11). Quiet your heart, mute your cell phone and let His love wash over you today.
- Jesus will be glad to see you. Matthew 25:23 expresses God’s absolute delight in your celestial arrival. He says “Well done, good and faithful servant….Come share your Master’s happiness.” Have you spent your life trying to please God and others? You will find forgiveness, grace and rest in heaven. (Psalm 103:12, Hebrews 4:10). Picture God smiling at you, welcoming you with open arms instead of shaking His finger at you in reproof.
- Bored? You will have fulfilling work to do. The cream cheese commercial featuring “haloed” angels lying on cloud pillows and strumming harps is a myth. Revelation 7 and 22 states that we will not work riddled with fatigue and frustration (the result of the Fall), but will fulfill all of the potential God placed within you with unlimited resources and energy.
- Those you love and miss are watching. Hebrews 12:1 describes the crowd of witnesses cheering us on in our earthly struggles. Revelation 6:9 and Luke 16:19-30 give us an indication that our dear ones do see us but through an eternal lens. What joy to reunite with them! If “a thousand years is as a day, and a day is as a thousand years,” then your husband may die and you follow him ten years later. That’s about fifteen minutes in “heaven” time. He sees you and quips, “Hi, Honey! Late as usual…”
- The worship will be awesome!!! Revelation 4:1-11 depicts the glorious scene of unceasing worship before God’s Throne. All are singing “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was, and is, and is to come.” I don’t care how much or little you enjoy worship now, sing, shout, thank and praise God during your day. God’s presence hangs around when you praise. (Read about the Ark of God and His smoky glory). That should get you going!
Hoping in heaven gives you a different perspective on life. I envision my understanding of the here and now as the underside of an embroidered pillowcase. All I see are knots and dangling threads. The heaven side reveals a beautifully crafted masterpiece.
Thinking about heaven makes me happy. Besides, I am going to chow down at the Marriage Feast of the Lamb and not gain an ounce!
Feeling grumpy, discouraged, disappointed or just plain grouchy? Perhaps you need a dose of gratitude.
Paul tells to give thanks in everything. I’m not feeling it. But being joyful and grateful has nothing to do with feelings. I chatted with an 88-yr-old retired pastor yesterday. He had health problems out the wazoo. However, he wisely said, “You can choose to be joyful!”
If anyone had a right to complain, it was he!
So what is your gratitude quotient, and how do you measure up? Nancy Leigh DeMoss, founder of Revive Our Hearts, inspired me to take this challenge. I created my own “happy recipe.” How can you and I become grateful in a week?
Focus on the character of God, not on yourself.
“Rejoice in the Lord always, and again I say rejoice!” Philippians 4:4 NIV
Sounds easy enough. Well, it’s not. Most of us have a skewed view of our Creator. We feel He is demanding, judgmental and mostly disappointed in us. We wake up and assume our Heavenly Father is thinking, “What kind of mischief is he/she going to get into today?” That will make anyone frustrated.
The truth is, God longs to commune and comfort us. When we open our bleary eyes and our hairy toes are still warmed under the covers, God joyfully cries, “He’s awake! She’s awake!” That should give you a dose of joy juice.
“The Lord your God is with you…He will take great delight in you…He will rejoice over you with singing.” Zephaniah 3:17
Remember the good times. “Count your blessings, name them one by one….” A cliché? Corny song. Great idea. And it came from God’s Word, the Psalms specifically.
“I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.” Psalms 77:11 NIV
Your day may be stinky right now, but God has shown Himself faithful in the past. Recall when He answered a prayer or intervened on your behalf.
I didn’t remember my childhood for most of my life. Weird, huh? But one day, God pressed rewind on my brain and I could remember my past. Every detail. I even wrote a book about my amazing childhood. The Holy Spirit can “call everything into remembrance…” And you will cherish those tidbits of treasure from your past.
Hump day. The day in the middle of the week when Friday looms ahead and Monday was mundane. Today, look at the little details of your day. Notice the people God brings across your path (good, bad or ugly). These dear souls are Divine appointments. See how God can show Himself in your relationships. Glance at the photos on your desk or shelf. Your loved ones can bring you delight. Appreciate God’s handiwork in others.
The apostle Paul said:
“I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy…” Philippians 1: 3-4a NIV
“The heavens declare the glory of God, the skies proclaim the work of His hands.” Psalm 19:1.NIV
Peer outside your window. You may see a parking lot, but somewhere you will observe a ray of sunshine, a cloud, a glorious tree, bird or flower. “Stop and smell the roses” is an oft-quoted phrase, but is pregnant with meaning. We rush by God’s glory in nature. Hectic racing, over-commitment and poor planning makes our daily lives a blur. Stop. Look around you. Every tree, flower, bird was embroidered by God. See them. Cherish them. Let them cheer you.
Now say something. Say it often. “repeated thanks”-what a concept! Say it to someone else.
“But I will give repeated thanks to the Lord, praising him to everyone.” Psalm 109:30 NLV
People seldom say “thank you” anymore! God blesses US. Be grateful. Tell Him. Tell your friends.
Laundry day. Soccer practice. Honey-Do chores. Go ahead. Make your grocery list. Then, take a few moments to sit down with your Bible and consider some of the Psalms “thankful” verses. Each one can teach you something about learning the art of being appreciative and contented: Psalm 28:7, Psalm 48:4, Psalm 75:1. Read ‘em. Ruminate on what they say. Write your thoughts down. Stick a post-it note on your bathroom mirror with a special verse to remind you of God’s love when you brush your teeth (and floss, of course).
This is the hard part. Not for musicians, but for run-of-the-mill ordinary folks. God asks us to sing to Him. A lot.
“It is good to give thanks to the Lord, to sing praises to the Most High.” Psalm 92:1 NIV
Warble until you’re hoarse. God doesn’t care how you sound. And, by the way, don’t wait to go into your church service until the worship is over. Who cares if the music “isn’t your style,” if it is too loud, too soft, sharp or flat. God asks you to worship. You. Be glad in God. Be noisy. Jump around. Cheer and shout. You don’t have to be a Holy Roller to do it. King David did, and God loved him for it!
Get rid of the grumpies. You can change. You can become grateful in a week. Give it a try and God will bless you for it.
"Happy Father's Day!" Daughters, do those words invoke images of love and acceptance, or hatred and abuse? Where was your Dad? Was he nurturing or neglectful? Here's a Bible character who could be nominated for Worst Dad Ever.
“Here’s your breakfast, Beautiful. Slap on the feed bag, Fatso.”
Those are the words Daddy Laban spoke to his daughters every morning. Laban, the Old Testament patriarch, dubbed his youngest daughter “Dainty” (That’s what Rachel means in Hebrew). Big Sis Leah was called “Cow” when she emerged from her mother’s womb. In Hebrew culture, names were signifiers, prophetic words spoken over the child by the parent. So Leah lived with the stigma of a derogatory moniker her whole life. Can you imagine being dealt such a debilitating blow to your own self- esteem? Laban was a bad dad.
Fathers (if they are still around) leave an indelible mark upon their daughters.
I grew up with one sister. Her name was “Barbie.” (Her actual name was Kathy, but she was blonde, blue-eyed and gorgeous). I felt like Midge, Barbie’s plain girlfriend, all my life. I suffered through the acne, glasses, braces and the baby fat of early adolescence. I was never homecoming queen, but was blessed that my father saw Kathy and me as equally beautiful and gifted in his eyes.
Chinese girl babies are still offed because the family is permitted to have only one child, and that child needed to be a son. Sons and their wives lived with his parents, therefore the son’s parents were provided for in their old age. A daughter’s parents had no one to provide security for the future because the bride left to live with the groom’s family.
Some daughters from Islamic families receive incomprehensible pain and abuse from their fathers. My dearest friend in Jordan provides a safe house for girls who have been raped by their fathers and uncles, discarded like trash, condemned as unclean and sent to live on the streets. These precious young women are often destined for a life of imprisonment, poverty or prostitution.
Many Indian females suffered brutal discrimination and ridicule through the years. However, in a recent ceremony in Mumbai, India, 285 Indian girls with the name “Nakusa” or “unwanted,” were allowed to choose new names. Associated Press, 2011.
The book of Genesis recounts Leah’s painful story of abandonment and rejection. Genesis 29 reads like a soap opera-replete with favoritism, intrigue, jealousy and sibling rivalry. Poor Leah’s physical description was not flattering.
Genesis 29:16-18: “Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah had weak eyes, but Rachel was lovely in form, and beautiful.
As the story goes, Laban tricked Jacob into sleeping with homely Leah instead of sexy Rachel, the wife he requested.
So the cycle of pain continued. Jacob rejected Leah just as her father, Laban had done.
LEAH WAS WOUNDED BY HER FATHER'S AND HUSBAND'S REJECTION.
CAN YOU IMAGINE THE IMPACT OF LEAH’S LOW SELF-ESTEEM UPON HER CHILDREN?
Leah's rejection was shown in the names she bestowed upon her sons. After sleeping with Jacob, she immediately conceived and had a son. Leah named her first baby boy Reuben (not the sandwich). Reuben means “God knows I am miserable-surely now Jacob will love me.” Can you imagine? Leah calls from her tent, “Come to dinner, maybe now my husband will love me.”
The second son Simeon means “God sees me, but Jacob doesn’t love me.” Can you imagine? Jacob hears Leah call to her son, “Put on your sandals, Jacob doesn’t love me.”
Then, Levi was born, and Leah called him “Now my husband will finally become attached to me.” So sitting around the dinner table were “Surely Jacob will love me,” “maybe now Jacob will love me,” and finally “Jacob will like me a little.”
Spoiled Rachel was grouchy by now because she had yet to bear a son, so when Joseph was born, she named him, “I hope I get another one.” Can you imagine calling your first child “I hope I get another one?”
But as time went by, Leah’s attitude began to change. Her next three sons were Judah, “this time I will praise the Lord,” Isaachar, “God has rewarded me for giving my maid servant to my husband,” Zebulun, “This time my husband will treat me with honor because I have given him six sons.” Leah began to realize the love she had longed for was given to her by her Heavenly Father.
Have the women in your life ever received the “Leah” treatment?
Leah needed to be known and to know she was loved.
First, what might Jacob have done to really know Leah?
He could have spent time with her, learning the unique beauty of her character. If you look closer the Hebrew word for Leah’s eyes, rakkoth means weak or tender, delicate and soft. Leah’s eyes were sensitive, gentle and kind.
Perhaps Rachael’s eyes sparkled while Leah’s were dreamy and tender.
Though she may have been unwanted and despised by Jacob, God saw in her an inner beauty that equipped her for carrying out his plan. There is a kind of beauty that God gives at birth that will eventually wither like a flower. And, there is a beauty God grants to those who are born again by grace. This beauty blooms for eternity.
Laban could have given her security! Security is like a “cuddly blanket.”
Your daughter needs to know:
Daddy won’t leave me: he will be there when I need him.
Dad will give me stability—financially, mentally, emotionally and physically.
My maternal grandfather was a sex addict. He married and divorced my grandmother three times. He had multiple affairs, coming home at all hours of the night with no explanation or apology. My Mom once saw him at the movies with another woman. When she tearfully told her mother, my grandmom shook her head and said nothing. When he had his last affair before their final divorce, Grandpa’s mistress walked straight up to my Grandmother, introduced herself and said two words: “He’s mine.”
On the other hand, my father could not have loved my Mother more deeply and differently. He constantly romanced her, befriended her and praised her. He knew how deeply impacted she was by her father’s infidelity, so he led a pure, committed Christian life and assured her of his faithfulness. Sixty-five years later, they are still madly in love!
And as a father, he modeled love, faithfulness and integrity to his two daughters.
Fathers, love like God loves your little girls.
"The Lord appeared from of old to me [Israel], saying, Yes, I have LOVED YOU WITH AN EVERLASTING LOVE; therefore with loving-kindness have I drawn you and continued My faithfulness to you.” Jeremiah 31:3 AMP
If Christ owned a smartphone, what apps would He create? Let's use our imagination...
- Game of Stones
- Angry Hebrews
- God’s Word with Friends
- Where’s Zacchaeus?
- Morning Star Wars
- Kugel Maps
You probably think this is sacrilegious. You are wrong. Jesus was committed to reaching His culture. If Jesus lived in this generation, He’d certainly have a smartphone. After all, 80% of the people on this planet own one: five BILLION people. You heard me. Even in third world countries, 1.08 BILLION own cellphones.
There is nothing new to being mobile with your faith. In Exodus, God said “Build me a mobile tabernacle.” The Jews toted the Holy Tent containing the Ark of the Covenant around for generations. Jesus never had a home. His ministry was completely mobile. Christ said, “Foxes have dens, birds have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay His head.” Matthew 18:20 NIV
Mobile faith is nothing new.
However, too much technology can bankrupt us spiritually. I was deeply inspired by a sermon preached by Tim Chaddick at Reality Church L.A. He warned:
“We can truly overextend ourselves and so believe our own hype that we end up living distracted and disconnected.” We are so focused on our “selfies” and our “friendies” that God and our nearest and dearest are left in the dust. We become unaware of what our Heavenly Father is doing. I can’t tell you how many times I see families in a restaurant pouring over their smartphones instead of talking to each other.
Can we turn off the noise for a moment and consider boundaries? What are they? Chaddick teaches:
“Learn to set limits. Though we do not choose the times in which we live, we can choose today how we are going to live. Set moral, ethical and spiritual boundaries. Listen to your body. You can only be in one place at one time. Do what’s in front of you, what God has placed right in front of your eyes. Hear His voice and get in tune with the Holy Spirit. We only have 24 hours a day. We must decide how we will live in that finite amount of time.”
Now, what about that smartphone sitting in your purse or pocket? How would Jesus like you to use it?
I have a few thoughts. Immerse your heart in Scripture with great Bible apps.
For Bible Study:
- Bible by LifeChurch.tv
- Bible + by Immersion Digital
- Bible.is from Faith Comes by Hearing
- Bible Gateway by the Zondervan Corporation
- Daily Audio Bible by Brian Hardin.
Here are a few prayer apps:
- Facebook (use privacy settings)
- Church prayer ministry apps.
- Prayer List.
- A collection of Holy Prayers.
- The Way of the Cross Prayer.
Here are a couple of helpful favorites for Christian books, sermons and commentaries:
Next, I would search online for your favorite church or author/speaker.
- Francis Chan
- Timothy Keller
- John Ortburg
- Randy Alcorn
- Henry Blackaby
- Nancy Leigh DeMoss
- Beth Moore
- Max Lucado
These best-selling authors, along with countless others, often have personal devotional sites with mobile apps. Follow them for written content or podcasts.
Our website, www.preachitteachit.org, features all the above churches, authors and teachers. Hundreds of contributors, thousands of sermons. We are going mobile next month.
Most churches today have a plan to go mobile if they haven’t already. You can worship on your phone while you are waiting to get a cavity filled. I received a text this week from an old friend 1,000 miles away. She said, “What in the world is going on? I’ve been on my knees before God for you the last hour!” I was driving through a tornado-80 mile/per/hour winds, golf ball-sized hail, and a greenish black cloud that sounded like a freight train. I reached my daughter’s house to take cover five minutes before the storm hit her house. I needed that smartphone text. I realized that God was with me in an amazing, miraculous way.
Smartphones are not of the devil. They are simply a tool, to be used for good or evil. Use yours judiciously and effectively. Jesus would.