Women: Put the Power of Your Words to Good Use
- Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Editor's Note: The following is a report on the practical applications of Sharon Jaynes' book, The Power of a Woman’s Words, (Harvest House, 2007).
Words are one of the most powerful forces in the universe. God used them to create the world. When you use words, you’re tapping into great creative power yourself – power that can result in either good or evil.
As a woman, you likely speak and write many words throughout each day. How are you directing the power behind those words? Here’s how you can put the power of your words to good use:
Consider the significance of your words. The words you express now will echo for eternity through the ways they impact the lives of the people around you. You may never know how much your positive words will bless others or how much your negative words will hurt them.
View your words as mirrors you hold up to others. The words you use when communicating with others act as mirrors that help them see themselves the way you see them. Decide to look for the best – not the worst – in others. Ask God to help you see their potential. Then choose to communicate words of acceptance and encouragement that inspire them to fulfill their potential.
Communicate well with your children. Use your words to let your children know how much God loves them, and how much you love them. Encourage them to discover their purpose, natural talents, and spiritual gifts. Urge them to pursue dreams that God has placed in their hearts. Pray for them and with them regularly. Become their chief cheerleader instead of their chief critic. Pump courage and confidence into their lives by speaking positive words to them as often as possible. Notice when they display godly character or complete a job well, and compliment them. Encourage them through notes (such as those you tuck inside their school bags or place on their pillows at night), cards, or e-mails. Avoid teasing, sarcasm, put-downs, and language that shames your children. Every day, tell them what they long to hear – that you love them – in specific and creative ways.
Communicate well with your husband. Make sure your words for your husband are loving, kind, encouraging, and supporting. Too many critical words can devastate your husband and cause great harm to your marriage. Regularly compliment your husband in specific ways, such as by letting him know that you admire his talent for something or that you love seeing his smile. Let your husband know that you believe in him and appreciate all that he does.
Communicate well with your friends. Give hope to your friends through your words. Encourage them when they’re burdened with something (like the death of a loved one or the loss of a job). Offer to help them when they need something. Correct them when they’re veering away from faithful decisions, but do so without judging them. Celebrate with them when they’re rejoicing about something. Listen carefully when they share their concerns, and pray with them. Praise their strengths and offer to help them overcome their weaknesses. Make a list of words that you would like to have friends communicate to you; then use those same words to bless your friends.
Communicate well with fellow believers. Remember that God has called you to live in community with your fellow believers, interacting in ways that build each other instead of tearing each other down. Don’t participate in the grumbling and gossiping that’s too common in some churches. Encourage believers to pursue what God has called them to do. Express your thanks and appreciation to people who serve, letting them know that their efforts are valuable.
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