Five Lies that Keep Us From Dreaming
- Thursday, March 21, 2013
Adapted from: You’re Made For a God-Sized Dream. Copyright© 2013 by Holley Gerth. Published by Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group, Grand Rapids, MI. www.RevellBooks.com Used with permission.
Ever since Eden, the enemy has come at us with a million different versions of the same question, “Did God really say...?” And many times those questions are aimed squarely at our dreams.
Did God really say you have what it takes?
Did God really say that’s what you’re supposed to do?
When you follow your God-sized dreams, you’ll face many external obstacles. But the biggest threats are from the inside.
Lie #1: “Dreaming Is Selfish”
“I want to follow this dream,” she says. “But it just feels so selﬁsh.”
From all the women I’ve talked to about God-sized dreams, this is the lie I hear most often. Women are a generous gender. We care deeply, passionately. We’d do anything for the ones we love. We serve selﬂessly. That is good, beautiful, and true.
But you matter too.
So do your dreams. The enemy knows that it’s often one little word that can stop our dreaming in its tracks: selfish. We come to a screeching halt and say, “I’m not going within ten feet of that possibility.” But if we tiptoe closer to that lie, we can see it for what it really is—a mirage.
“God is love” (1 John 4:16). Everything he does is loving. Everything he places within you is loving. That includes your dreams.
Now, if your dream is to run off to Tahiti with the pool boy and live on a two-hundred-foot yacht, then honey, that’s a whole different story. But if you have yielded to God and you have this nagging desire within you that just won’t go away, then most likely it’s from him. And if it is, then he has a way that you can live it out that isn’t about selﬁshness but instead is about service.
Lie #2: “I Don’t Have What It Takes”
It seems as soon as we give ourselves permission to dream, comparison is nipping at our heels. We look around and see others who are better, skinnier, more eloquent than us. Before we even get started, we disqualify ourselves. We vow to hold back until we’re “as good as they are.” Before we know it, time slips by and our dream still waits for its turn.
This lie is ultimately rooted in the belief that our God-sized dream is the same as someone else’s. When we decide that’s true, it means we’re competitors because there aren’t enough dreams to go around. But the reality is, even if someone else’s dream looks, sounds, or even feels like yours—it’s not the same.
It doesn’t matter if you think you’re not as good as someone else. You have what it takes to fulﬁll the dream God has for your life, and no one else does.
You are the only you we have. That means your God-sized dream either happens through you or not at all.
Lie #3: “It’s Too Late”
She stands with a baby on her hip, and three others are causing chaos in the background. Above the noise she declares, “Well, I once had dreams, but now all I’ve got is diapers. It’s too late for me.” I’ve heard retired people, those with chronic illness, and many facing difficult circumstances say the same thing—that it’s too late. Perhaps this is the hardest lie of all. It locks our dreams into a time bomb, and once we think it’s exploded, it seems there’s no picking up the pieces again.
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