A Budget That Could Change Your Life
- Friday, February 24, 2006
We had talked until there really was nothing more to say. Marty (I frequently don’t use people’s real names) sat in my office thoughtfully reflecting on what we had just discussed. He was either going to have to make some tough changes in his life—or things were going to go from bad to worse. His life was upside down, his personal relationships were faltering, and his finances were in a mess. This particular evening we had spent most of our time discussing the latter. At twenty-eight years old, this college-educated bachelor was so loaded with debt and financial obligations—he didn’t know which way to go. Like so many others, Marty had no real idea how much he was spending each month. Since he had failed to control his money—his money was now controlling him.
Contrast that with Phil and Penny. I had known these two good folks for sometime. They had all the job stresses and personal challenges that any couple with college-age children does. A few days after attending a class I had taught on financial management, Phil came up to me with a big smile and said, "I just want to tell you about something good that has happened in our lives. After your class on budgeting, Penny and I decided it was time to give it a try. And guess what?"
"What?" I asked.
"We found money we didn’t know we had! After preparing a written budget like you suggested, we’ve found $300 per month for savings and we’ve been able to increase our giving by $40 per month!"
The Lay of the Land
Every year financial advisors encourage Americans to make their family budget at the top of their New Year’s resolutions – there’s a reason. As I travel America presenting the No Debt No Sweat! Christian Money Management Seminar at churches, colleges and other venues, I’ve become convinced that the primary reason most families get into financial trouble is because they haven’t made adequate plans not to. Relatively few families crash and burn financially because of a medical catastrophe, or a bad business investment, or because they are swindled. In truth, the vast majority of Americans who are in acute financial pain are there because of poor planning and virtually no record keeping. I suspect that less than 10% of all households in this country work from a planned, written, monthly budget. And, without such a document—your family finances are a disaster looking for a place to happen.
No one would start building a home without a blueprint. Would you leave on a long road trip to a new destination without a map, or at least some directions? Why, I’ll bet even Martha Stewart wouldn’t try a new casserole without a written recipe to work from. Yet every month, all over the country, people get their paychecks and spend them with no written plan. They pop theirs checks into the bank, and start paying bills—with no written spending plan. Then when the money runs out before the month does, they’re back in the same old downward spiral of stalling bill collectors and living on credit cards.
Maybe it’s time for us to rethink the "B" word—budgeting. Yeah, I know. No one likes to budget. We associate it with pain and austerity. Budgeting means scrimping—having to say "No" to all the things we want to do. Budgeting, dieting, root canals—they all sort of go together don’t they?
Believe me, I know how you feel. I don’t like budgeting either. But I learned a long time ago that there are usually two ways to do anything: The right way, and the easy way. Although I call it the easy way, it’s actually only easy in the short-term. Those "easy monthly payments" have destroyed many a family’s financial health. When you think about it, isn’t this the root of a lot of our pain? Putting immediate gratification ahead of long term planning? Ever since Esau sold his birthright for a bowl of Jacob’s stew, people have been making bad long-term decisions to enjoy short-term gains.
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