Top Priority: Remembering Your Spouse
- Wednesday, September 05, 2012
It is just as important for my husband to feel like the king of his castle as it is for our children to see their father in that role. Our kids need to see that I respect and honor their dad. Part of that respect means carving out specific time just for him, or buying him little treats to let him know that he is being thought of during the day. There are times I will go out of my way to pick up his favorite snack “just because.” Each of these little instances doesn’t take too much money, but leaves a big impression on his heart. They let my man know that I love him just as much as I did when we were dating and that my love for him keeps growing. It also shows in the way I drop everything to help him find his belt or the fact that I make his lunch every day before work, as I have been doing since the day we got married.
When the kids are a little bit older, we will have more time to travel “just the two of us” and probably more time for those regularly planned date nights too. For now, I pray that my husband feels loved by the specific things I choose to do on a daily and weekly basis to keep our love alive just like we did when we were dating.
Lastly, I pray that I am modeling for the “future wife” in my daughter how important it is to nurture the relationship she has with her husband, second only to God. I also pray that my sons are learning how to nurture their “future marriages” someday by watching their dad and I keep each other first priority, second only to God. That is, after all, what family should be about - making sure each person feels valued, secure, and loved, each in his or her own place.
Having said that, were any of you able to walk down memory lane about your own dating and marriage experiences? Are you remembering any special times from the past that you want to relive with the most important person in your life? There is no time like the present to start.
Cheri Swalwell describes herself as a Christ follower first and foremost, wife, mother, and avid reader. She has been blessed to be a guest on a variety of blogs including here at Crosswalk.com/family and Christiandevotions.us. If you want to hear more about the heart she has for marriage, parenting, and relationships from a Christian perspective, feel free to visit her blog or “like” her on Facebook.
Publication date: September 5, 2012
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