Jesus … Single Like Me: He Took Care of His Family
- Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Once Jesus started his public ministry we gradually learned of who he was. His day-to-day responsibilities with his family changed. He went from being a brother and son to a Savior. But you know what is absolutely amazing? At the cross, as he was dying for our sins, his widowed mother, his friend Mary Magdalene and his best friend John were the only ones there. Jesus remembered his responsibility to his family and asked John to take care of her and vice versa. Even in his last minutes of breath, dying for all the world, he remembered his mother when his siblings had not.
When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, "Dear woman, here is your son," and to the disciple, "Here is your mother." From that time on, this disciple took her into his home (John 19:26-27).
This is an example of the importance God places on taking care of our family. Does it mean we are uncomfortable sometimes? Yes. Does it mean it might cost us what we want? Yes. Does it mean we have to put our lives on hold for a bit? Yes. But God will honor your sacrifice for he gave his son to us as a living one. Take time right now and ask God if you are doing all that you can do for your family. Has the Lord asked you to do something and you have refused? Please know I am not condoning parents or family who are abusing your goodwill or have addictions that they are not confronting, etc. I am simply saying to honor your parents in a way that God has asked. Pray for HIS direction with HIS guidance.
Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you (Exodus 20:12).
Well, the bathroom is almost done. We have the new tile up, and the walls are now nice and smooth. Tomorrow we are going to do grout. I have never done grout, but hey, I am willing to learn a new skill. Anything to help my widowed mom, anything to honor her and Jesus.
Questions for Discussion or Personal Exploration:
How would you describe your relationship with your parents, your family?
What have you done or not done for your parents, your family?
What has God been telling you in regards to helping your parents, your family?
Read Ephesians 6:1-3. What does mean to you?
Christ, even with all his responsibilities, made sure his mother was taken care of at his death. How does this make you feel?
How has your singleness been a positive or negative affect on your family?
Read 1 Timothy 5:4. What does this mean to you?
Start today to pray and ask God how you can help your parents, your family. Remember that as we build our relationship with the Lord, understand and know his love, we can then share it with others.
**This article first published on June 15, 2010.
Kris Swiatocho is the President and Director of TheSinglesNetwork.org Ministries and FromHisHands.com Ministries. Kris has served in ministry in various capacities for the last 20 years. An accomplished trainer and mentor, Kris has a heart to reach and grow leaders so they will in turn reach and grow others. She is currently working on her third Bible study, From the Manger to the Cross: The Men in Jesus' Life. Her second Bible study, From the Manger to the Cross: The Women in Jesus' Life, was published last fall and is available on her websites. Her first book, Singles and Relationships: A 31-Day Experiment, was co-authored with Dick Purnell of Single Life Resources.
TheSinglesNetwork.org Ministries helps churches, pastors and single adult leaders evaluate, develop and support their single adult ministries through high-energy speaking engagements, results-oriented consulting and training and leadership development conferences and seminars. Click here to request a FREE "How to Start a Single Adult Ministry" guide.
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