I heard Elizabeth Elliott being interviewed once, and she shared some profound statements that I jotted down. She said:

“There were six of us children. I asked the others and none of us ever remember challenging our parents’ authority in our teen years. Our lives were so shaped before that there were no problems. We grew up in the Great Depression in a very modest home on a very modest salary. Often my father would call home in the afternoon and announce that dinner guests were coming home that night. I have the guest book from our home. I have 42 different missionaries that came to our home at that time.”

The interviewer said to her, “You know, you make raising children sound easy.” Elizabeth Elliott replied, “Not easy, but simple.” A butter and honey diet, the best of the best, with the influence of God.

Think about King David. He became one of Israel’s greatest kings and a man after God’s own heart. How? A few simple but outstanding things. He meditated regularly on scripture. He learned to play the harp skillfully and beautifully. He learned tenderness and care for others by caring for his sheep. He learned to be skillful with his hands using a sling shot. Just simple things, yet he became one of the greatest men of God the world has ever known.

You must protect a child against developing the wrong appetites. If your child already has some wrong appetites, then remember this thought: The way to increase an appetite is to feed it. The way to decrease an appetite is to starve it.

Be careful of those things which hamper creativity and imagination, such as television and video games. Without these things, children will have the opportunity to read, stretch their creativity, interact with others, and exercise their young bodies and minds more constructively.

Don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying that it’s wrong to have some of the electronic devices of our day. But it is so incredibly easy to abuse them and develop an insatiable appetite to have more and more. We need to carefully guard our children’s appetites.

I have parents of young teens call me and say, “I don’t understand why my child is like he is. He wants to run with his friends. He has bad habits and no appetite for spiritual things. He listens to wrong music. He feeds on dirty movies and magazines, and I think he’s probably into other things that I don’t even know about. We’ve gone to church all his life.”