The Emperor's Club VIP, an
international prostitution ring, markets so-called high-class call girls in
cities around the world. The escort agency claims that the girls are
well-educated, sophisticated and able to carry on intelligent conversations. The
pictures are typical cleavage and legs, but the advertising text includes vague
references to the girls' successful careers and great personalities.
The reality, though, turns
out to be just a bit different.
Ashley Dupre, the
22-year-old assigned to Client 9, New York's now ex-Governor Eliot Spitzer, was
called "Kristin." Instead of being well-educated, she is a high school drop-out
who ran away from an abusive home situation at the end of her sophomore year in
high school. Rather than being sophisticated and having impressive career
credentials, Ashley speaks of herself as someone who knows what it is to be
"broke and homeless." Her clients, of course, don't know the real Ashley, nor do
they care to know her problems. Ashley claims that she is a prostitute because
her dream of a singing career hasn't gotten off the ground. She and her latest
boyfriend split up when she discovered that he had two kids. She finances the
perks of a big city lifestyle by being a prostitute. While $1,000 an hour sounds
like a lot of money, at least half of it goes to the prostitution ring, plus it
takes a lot of money to keep up appearances - not to mention supporting a drug
habit. She worries that without the connections of the Emperor's Club she won't
be able to pay the rent on her expensive apartment in Manhattan.
The marketing pitch to
clients from the booking agency promises girls like Kristin, who are younger,
bustier, sexier, and wrinkle-free versions of the powerful man's wife (who shows
the effects of having had his children and shouldering her share of the family
responsibilities); it all sounds like high-octane fun with no demands and no
strings attached - all this, wrapped in the illusion of no consequences. The
john pays his money and takes what he wants without giving anything but the
money that he can easily spare and won't even miss - just the ticket for the
self-centered, power-tripping, irresponsible, overgrown adolescent.
In reality, the john risks
his health, his reputation, his family and his soul for a few hours of
pretending that he is footloose and responsibility-free … all the while being
conned by the notion that he's sexually irresistible. He sacrifices his honor
and his character, forsakes his moral duty and violates ethical standards of
behavior by cheating on his wife and exploiting a foolish, self-centered and
reckless young woman who has emotional and psychological needs buried far below
the surface confidence. There are ample reasons why so many prostitutes abuse
drugs and alcohol, high-end call girls and streetwalkers alike.
For every Kristin who
chooses prostitution over positive and productive ways of making a living, there
are thousands of girls who are lured or forced into the worst kinds of sexual
exploitation - modern-day slavery. Most of the American victims enter
prostitution at an average age of 12-14. Many people see a big difference
between high-class call girls and prostitutes in a brothel, but beneath their
glossy exteriors, the high-priced call girls have more in common with the girls
in the brothels than with the women who are wife material for the wealthy and
powerful. Sadly, after spending their physical beauty plying the sex trade for a
few years, the glamorous call girls end up just like the more ordinary and less
glamorous whores, their dreams of a modeling, singing or acting career forever
out of reach.
One of the often neglected
facts about prostitution is that the call girl's beauty and gorgeous body won't
last "in the business." It won't take long before she joins the 85 percent of
prostitutes who want out. But she will continue to be sold - in increasingly
less prestigious venues; she'll probably be in an ordinary brothel before she's
30 and being pimped in a sleazy dive by 35.
A booking agent's recent
exposé revealed that a john had offered one of her call girls $40,000 for
condom-free sex. With that kind of drive for unfettered sexual intercourse, and
with the power imbalance in promiscuous couplings, what chance does the girl
have when the jerks want to throw away the condom? Also, why should we be
surprised at the recent news that one-in-four teenage girls has an
STD?
That same booking agent
described the "common story" of her girls. Around age 25 they develop "that
knowing, experienced look" that repels high-powered clients, and their options
become very limited. Most of the girls "sort of fade away" into "loneliness and
poverty."
While the public is
mesmerized by the implosion of Eliot Spitzer's political ambitions, we should
take time to mourn his wife's blatant pain and lament the sordid quagmire of
Ashley Dupre's sad circumstances and poor choices.
Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse is a Senior Fellow of Concerned Women for America’s
Beverly LaHaye Institute. She writes about contemporary issues that affect women, family, religion and culture in her regular column "Dot.Commentary."