Another popular suburbia event involves kids and sports. My girls are older now, both in their teenage years. They are interested in education, music and college choices on the horizon. Sports are played, but they are a secondary event in their lives at this time.

We have many younger kids around the neighborhood. Why not make a contact with one of the parents, strike up a conversation about "Bobby's" little league team and find out the next game location and time?

Have your older kids prepare signs and streamers for "Bobby" and his team. Travel to the game and cheer for "Bobby" as if he was one of your own. It makes for a great afternoon, and a great BBQ after the game.

Finally, be a neighborhood party goer.

Recently Tammy and I were invited to a Tequila laced 'Cinco de Mayo', we joyfully went. The house was jammed with kids, relatives and neighborhood party goers. The boxing match was on TV, and the men watched Mayweather defeat De La Hoya in a TKO.

During the party's evening cascade, Tammy and I were approached by a neighbor who was more than curious about language. She noticed that we mentioned words like "blessed", and "God love ya" - my wife's favorite retort when someone makes an blunder. She has heard my talk show, and was so excited about asking if we were Christians.

We responded with a grace-filled "yes". She proceeded to tell us of a trip to Costa Mesa in the early 90's, where she heard Greg Laurie speak at Calvary Chapel. She shared a decision she made on that day, one that has forever changed her life.

Here in the middle of the party, she was sharing her desire to know Jesus more, "I know there is more", and she is determined to go deeper. We were blessed because we attended a rowdy party, engaged the fun and enjoyed the people.

I'm encouraged, knowing that Jesus met hundreds at parties, and he desires a party for all of us.

As I told the caller, just look around and be creative - not religious or self-righteous. Meet a need, join a temporal celebration and attend the party...watch what Abba does with His love on the scene, because true love still impacts people in Graceland.

Eric Hogue is a 25-plus year radio professional. A 2004 recipient of the Andy Anderson Award for excellence in broadcasting. Hogue has a background in sports play-by-play for both radio and television. He was raised a fundamental legalist, became a contemporary cultural pastor and now resides in "Graceland" as a saved Ragamuffin. Hogue is also a veteran husband, a learning father of two teenagers daughters. During his years as a general market 'News/Talk Radio Host', he worked in Cleveland, Ohio, and Sacramento, California. "The Eric Hogue Show" can be heard all over Northern California on radio stations 710am KFIA in Sacramento, and 1100am KFAX in San Francisco and San Jose. Comments: talkback@erichogue.com; Web: www.erichogue.com

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