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Keeping Up Appearances

Chip Ingram

Living on the Edge

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? When you catch your reflection in a storefront window, what do you think? Do you see a beautiful, or handsome person, full of potential and endowed by God to do wonderful things? Or do you tend to see that crooked tooth, those crows' feet, those extra few pounds around the middle?

Maybe you don't like to look in the mirror much at all, because it reminds you of all the things that need to be "fixed." Or maybe, you spend lots of time at the tanning booth or in the gym striving for improvement, trying to reach "good looking" status as it is prescribed by our culture.

We live in a culture obsessed with bodies. That's the bottom line (pardon the pun!). We can't grow old gracefully anymore; we have to have buns of steel and ageless skin. In fact, we are told that we can find beauty in an 8 oz. jar and youth in a vitamin pill. Television, magazines, advertisements, all bombard us daily with the faulty insistence that we just aren't good enough the way we are. Even though we may like the way we look, and desire to be content with how we are made, we are constantly reminded of our physical imperfections.

I believe it's part of our humanness, particularly for women, to walk into a group, take a look around, and begin comparing ourselves to everyone else. A little tape measure pulls out of our head (whether we are aware of it or not), and we size up ourselves, how we fit in, how we look alongside others.

But if we can, let's set aside all those messages and impressions from our culture, and hear what God has to say about our physical appearance. When God looks at you and me, what does He see?

Interestingly, the Bible doesn't waste a lot of ink describing people's appearances. We don't even know what Adam and Eve looked like, who were the original specimens of human perfection. We don't know what color Eve's hair was, how she wore it, or what shape her nose was. We don't know if Adam had a moustache or goatee, or what his body structure was. What we do know is that man and women were made in the image of God, to reflect who He is, to take care of the earth and to multiply and fill it.

In fact, many times when beauty and physical attractiveness is mentioned in Scripture, it's connected with the sinfulness of man! Sarai's beauty got her in trouble with Pharoah (Gen. 12:10-13), Bathsheba's beauty ignited the moral downfall of Israel's greatest king (2 Sam. 11:1-2). David's appearance was discounted altogether by Samuel, who pointed out that "God looks at the heart," and although we don't know exactly what Jesus looked like, Isaiah's prophecies tell us He wasn't particularly attractive.

On the other hand, God at times used the physical beauty of someone to bring about good, as in the case of Esther, and the Song of Solomon shows what a good thing it is for a husband and wife to be attracted to one another.

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satovey
9/19/2007 9:08 AM
What do I see when I look in the mirror?

Let me tell you what I see:

I see a man who is told by people that he has many talents and skills.
I see a man, when he attempts to use those same talents and skills opposed by all of society.
I see a man whom the church as a whole uses, whether intentionally or not, to justify their acts of hatred of Jesus Christ whom they claim to love.
I see a homeless unemployed man whom society as a whole wishes would just die and go away.
I see a man, told by decades of preaching to do what God has asked of him.
I see the same man whom those same preachers stand in opposition to because he is poor and needy.
I see a man, from whom God has withheld employment to the detriment of his health.
I see a man condemned to death by the church for being fired from a job do soley to his lack of health.
I see a man deserted by society and betrayed by the church.
I see a man who is used as an excuse to disobey the Lord.
Scott
apocalypsemike
9/18/2007 12:08 PM
Sorry, but you struck out on this one. Unfortunately, physical apearance in every culture and especially western culture is a great determinate to how you will be treated all aspects of society, sometimes, even the church! for you to suggest one doesn't fret over it no consolation to those of us who haven't been as blessed as others in this regard. You will find discrimination if you are ill-favored in this on the job, socially, in the mate pool, at church and it will affect someone's overall sense of selfworth and self confidence. this opinion is given by one who knows!
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