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Non-Christians: Friends or Foes?

Non-Christians: Friends or Foes?

Ginger Plowman

I recently heard a young man preach a sermon on the importance of sharing the gospel. His philosophy was that as long as Christians are obeying God by witnessing to the lost, they should not care whether or not the lost accept Christ.

 

He proposed that this attitude takes the pressure off the one sharing the gospel. After all, if we only care about obeying God and not the results of sharing our faith, what do we have to lose? 

 

While I agree that the decision of another person to accept or reject the call of Jesus is certainly not the responsibility of the one who shared the gospel, I disagree that the Christian’s attitude be one of not caring. His charge for Christians to not concern themselves with non-Christians who reject Jesus bothered me for two reasons; God commands Christians to care, and God has convicted me many times for not caring.

 

Christians are charged in Colossians 3:12 to be compassionate. “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience” (emphasis mine). We are to care, just as Christ cares, for the lost souls of men.

 

I used to view non-Christians as outsiders. I looked at them as mere projects that I needed to check off my I shared Christ with them to-do list. I embraced sharing the gospel of Jesus as my job, and I faithfully did it out of obedience. 

 

This “just do it” attitude is definitely in line with my personality. Spiritual gifts tests have confirmed that I am a prophet/teacher. The downfall to a person with these gifts is that she/he is usually lacking in the compassion and mercy department. For example, when a turtle makes the dangerous decision to cross a busy road, many people think, “poor thing.” I think, “stupid turtle.” When someone comes to me with a problem, I’m not the huggy, let-me-cry-with-you type. I’m more the factual “here’s what you need to do so dry your eyes and get on with it” type.

 

Unfortunately, I must admit, that while I had a heart for obeying God in sharing the gospel with the lost, I did not have a heart for the lost. I can recall telling several people about Jesus and not grieving over their negative response to His plan of salvation. God convicted me that I was viewing Non-Christians as a type of enemy, an enemy that I needed to conquer in the spiritual war of evangelism.

 

I would faithfully put on my armor, swing the sword of truth at whoever came my way, and walk off the battlefield without giving a second thought to where the wounded fell.  I simply counted my efforts as medals toward spiritual heroism.

 

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P50116
12/7/2008 7:51 PM
You twist Scripture very well.

Interacting with someone is not the same as befriending them!

Here's the test: if they become believers, do you mentor them? Still spend as much time with them? Or do you move on to your next conversion project/conquest?

If they do not become believers, do you still share the Word? Still spend as much time with them? Or do you move on to your next conversion project/conquest?
lesterbriggs
5/22/2008 10:50 AM
I found the article very good and informative. By befriending them and walking with them you are opening Christ up to them. How else would they come to know His love for them.
everythingat
5/16/2008 9:56 AM
You had me until the second page. It's my opinion that's befriending them under false pretenses. You say to let them know upfront that you're devoted to Jesus...I think you should go ahead and let them know upfront as well that you're only befriending them for the hopes of bringing them to Christ. To do otherwise would be to deceive them. And in doing that, you once again become a secret agent for Christ.
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