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Rick Warren's Apology for Marriage

Rick Warren's Apology for Marriage

Sandy Rios

“The Sandy Rios Show,” WYLL Chicago


April 9, 2009

“Even if others do, I will never deny you,” declared the Apostle Peter some 2000 years ago just hours before he did exactly that, three times, when the heat was on.  Ten others boasted the same, but when the risk was more than theoretical, all deserted Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane. Only one was seen at the cross.

A fascinating story … the “old story” as the secularists like to call it. Barack Obama alluded to this in his speech in France. We need a new story, a discovery of “new ways” of thinking. We must throw off the old and embrace a much more enlightened, intelligent point of view. By doing so, we remove inconvenient barriers, cumbersome moral values and achieve self-determination with our new understanding of the world guiding the way. Surely we cannot be bound in this advanced new age by the old moral codes or put plainly, by what Jesus taught. Certainly not if we are to curry favor with the world in which we live.

This Holy Week, a key portion of the “old story” has been revisited in a very contemporary way. The last instruction Jesus gave as he left earth was Christ followers should tell His story of forgiveness and redemption not only in their communities, but to the “ends of the earth.” And as His followers told the “old story” they should not leave out all the other things as well. In the second part of the Great Commission, Christ admonished his followers to teach others “to obey all the things I have commanded you.” He wanted future generations to go beyond mere intellectual understanding and move to actually living out the principles … walking the walk.

One of those principles was marriage. “For this reason shall a man leave his parents and join with his wife and the two shall become one flesh,” Jesus instructed.  One man, one woman, for a lifetime, with no sex outside of that union.

Fast forward to 2009: California voters of various religious persuasions, in a ballot measure called Proposition 8, held to the traditional view of marriage—a union between a man and a woman. Subsequently challenged in court, as the battle ensued, Pastor Rick Warren, author of “The Purpose Driven Life” and pastor of Saddleback, one of the largest churches in the country, deeply influential, rightly told his congregation “…if you believe what the Bible says about marriage, you need to support Proposition 8. I never support a candidate, but on moral issues I come out very clear.” Until this week … Holy Week.

On the first Holy Week Peter promised Jesus, “Though others may turn away, I will never deny you.” But then in the chill of night in a courtyard just outside the place of Jesus’ trial, as others around the fire began to probe his relationship to Jesus, he quietly denied even knowing him. No one was threatening his life, but the derision increased and with every barb, until Peter’s denial escalated to a curse as he emphatically denied he had ever known Jesus.

Peter was worried about his reputation. He didn’t want to be the odd man out in the courtyard over the fire … it wasn’t a Roman soldier with a sword who challenged him, it was a mere servant girl.

“On moral issues I come out very clear,” declared Rick Warren when writing in the safety of his office. But when confronted by homosexual friends and Larry King this week, he folded just like Peter. Now, to be clear, he did not deny Christ, but he backpedaled so fast from where he previously stood and reinterpreted his previous statements in a way that strains credulity. He went on to describe how he has “apologized” to his homosexual friends for making comments in support of Proposition 8. He “never once gave an endorsement” of the marriage amendment, he declared.

And in one fell swoop, he not only separated himself from the biblical teaching on marriage, but distorted the past in the process. Seduced by the pressure of fame? Driven by the desire to please his friends? Afraid to be seen as bigoted to a national television audience? Whatever the motivation, the behavior is no less significant.

Rick Warren did not deny Christ on Larry King. But every believer who was watching had to question whether Rick was being faithful to the commission Christ left him with: Teaching others to “obey all the things I have commanded you.” And obedient biblical teaching on marriage is not a particularly difficult matter. Unpopular? Yes. Unclear? Hardly.

After Peter executed his betrayal, he went out and wept bitterly. On Larry King, Rick Warren went on to tell about his profuse apologies to his gay friends. In the broad scheme of things, I don’t think Rick Warren needed to apologize to them at all. An apology to Christ? Now that would be entirely in order.

This Holy Week, let’s pray America’s Pastor Rick Warren will not let this story end here.


Sandy Rios is the host of the “The Sandy Rios Show,” heard daily on WYLL in Chicago and a Fox News contributor. Contact her at srios@salemradiochicago.com.

Most Recent User Comments
psalms46ten
10/2/2009 8:22 PM
If one claims to be a child of God and obeys God's commandments to proclaim the truth of His word, why would you apologize for something that He is not apologizing for?

I continue to pray for preachers like Rick Warren and him as the days grow darker and Christ's return draws nearer. We have only begun to see the blossoming of the this world's wickedness and while we don't condemn or judge the world (2 Cor. 5), we do apologize sharing the truth of God's written Word with them either. Don't water down the gospel, nor speak for the Body of Christ, if you are unwilling to face the rejection that Jesus made ALL TO CLEAR would come as a result of following Him (John 15:18-27).

Read God's Holy Word and know it for yourself. You are accountable to God and you will be judge accordingly. Don't apologize for His truth (2 Corinthians 4:2, 1 Corinthians 1:18, 2:14). Stay blessed and show that you are a disciple of Christ before you speak it.
SonFlower05
4/13/2009 3:16 PM
When we stand on God's principles we should never ever have to apologize to anyone for what that. I think the writer did an excellent job comparing what Rick Warren did to Peter's denial. My grandmother always said if you are going to deny part of the bible, you may as well throw the whole thing out. Jesus said if you are friends of the world you are enemies of God. It's a choice... don't ride the fence, may fall off and that would hurt!

If our country is so diverse, then whatever opinion or value or ideal you hold and support - you should be able to support that valve and not have to offer an apology because someone else gets offended by it.

TWICE now the voters of California have made their voices heard loud and clear at the polls- they want marriage to be defined as 1 man, 1 woman. TWICE - if this is majority rules, the majority has spoken. It's not about just getting what a certain group wants.

rofaith
4/13/2009 3:03 PM
“During the King interview, Pastor Warren also referenced a letter of apology that he sent to gay leaders whom he knew personally. However, that mea culpa was not with respect to his statements or position on Proposition 8 nor the biblical worldview on marriage. Rather, he apologized for his comments in an earlier Beliefnet interview expressing his concern about expanding or redefining the definition of marriage beyond a husband-wife relationship, during which he unintentionally and regrettably gave the impression that consensual adult same sex relationships were equivalent to incest or pedophilia.”

A closer listen to the article would have revealed this to the author. While listening to the interview last week I was able to understand this....

OTOH, RW's remark about incest or pedophilia... I am still not so sure about. Given the NAMBLA organization's charter... makes me wonder.
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