Pornography, once a dirty little secret, has become an epidemic. Droves of men and women, youth and seniors, public servants and Christian leaders are admitting they struggle personally with pornography. Consider the following:
No longer simply someone else's problem, pornography has invaded the hearts and homes of your family and friends, and most likely your church. The good news is the battle isn't over! But overcoming it requires that you understand it and take action.
Playing with Fire
Those struggling with pornography, whether occasionally or daily, deal with the issue in one of two ways. Some live life telling themselves, "...I can stop anytime I choose". Rather than confront the demon proactively, they treat it with silence and a bold determination that next time they're tempted, they'll win. But experience and statistics are not on their side.
Others have given up the fight by rationalizing their involvement. After all, what's the harm in looking at a few pictures, or in renting an explicit video on occasion? They've tossed aside scriptural teaching focusing on the importance of moral purity, just as some denominations have rationalized their position on homosexuality.
But regardless of their response, playing with porn is playing with fire. Consider the findings of the LAPD Sexually Exploited Child (SEC) Unit. The LAPD-SEC examined the relationship between extra-familial child abuse and pornography in their cases over a ten-year period, dating from 1980-1989. Their findings are startling.
Pornography was directly involved in 62 percent of the cases they reviewed and actually recovered in 55 percent of their cases. The study's author concludes: "Clearly, pornography, whether it be adult or child pornography, is an insidious tool in the hands of the pedophilic population... The study merely confirms what detectives have long known: that pornography is a strong factor in the sexual victimization of children."