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tslleo
8/18/2009 11:53 AM
cminko is entirely on key. I agree wholeheartedly.
cminko
1/20/2009 8:17 PM
I, too, was dissapointed and slighted when I read the words of Mrs Obama. I have no idea what her upbringing or background is and don't fault her for her choice if it's in ignorance, but when we as Christian moms claim to believe the Bible and choose to go to work (not those that have to work) rather than raising our children, I have a problem with that. If we look at Titus 2:4-5, it says "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home (and yes, I believe that means housekeepers/SAHM's), good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." I think it speaks for itself... But really, I don't see the point in having kids if you're only there to tuck them in at night, while both mom and dad work because they want to. So that's my two cents worth...
jpramos584
8/7/2008 10:21 AM
Michelle Obama was raised in a different setting and mindset than many Christians. You always have to look at the perspective of the person before making claims of their demeanor behind a particular comment.
When she was growing up, women only worked if they really needed to to provide income for the household. Otherwise you were just a housewife. Now women have a variety of options compared to the environment she grew up in.
Career wise, Michelle has accomplished a lot being a woman. She went to Harvard Law and ended up being president of a medical school in Chicago. Women who have accomplished as much as Michelle are just a few of many to come. Let women be who they want to be. Even as being Christians, we all come in a variety of backgrounds and environments that God has blessed us with to become who He wants us to be.
jschreiber1969
8/7/2008 2:20 AM
Bravo! I could not agree more! I am a SAHM. It is NOT a status symbol, it is not easy. M Obama clearly enjoys rewards of money and status over the rewards of raising children. The Bible states that children are a blessing. I never would have thought that we would live in such a time that not only the world looks down at me being a SAHM but that the Christian community would also look down on my decision.

Having worked almost 20 yrs in the workforce, I realize on a daily basis how easy it would be to go back to work, however, how can I explain to my baby and 3 yr old that status, vacations and toys are more important to me than a slobbery kiss, a wobbly head and a comforting hug. We struggle, not only financially but with comments that come from friends and family. No one can understand how someone with a BS and an MA can stay at home but thank God I can. I am glad God blessed me with kids and that he gave me a brain to realize that I am better suited to raise them than a stranger.
sjd2008
7/11/2008 8:44 PM
Frankly, I'm tired of articles that feign offense in the process of making a political point. I'm also tired of the whole SAHM debate.

First, a bratty child is not necessarily an example of a family where both parents work outside the home. It is an example of BAD PARENTING.

To quote the commentary:
And for this, Michele Obama, potential first lady, makes it clear she’s not one of them. She’s above them, by golly—a six-figure attorney who has left the raising of her children to the little people.

Her two girls are old enough to go to school full time. Could it be possible that a grandparent or other relative watches them when their mother and father aren't around? I was raised by a mother and father who both worked and I have thrived quite well Thank You!
annemargo
7/11/2008 2:05 PM
I agree, this article is worse than the quote, and I strongly suspect that the quote has been taken out of context and quite probably distorted. What a non-story. BTW, where I live, the cost of living is quite high and being a SAHM is something of a status symbol, so I found the comments about "sacrifice" not very relevant--in fact insulting to this working wife. We own one 19 year old car, rent an apartment and live simply, and I know I'm not the only one. To me, this was a political article, not a religious article.
sma3878
7/11/2008 11:51 AM
I am not sure I would consider Michelle's comment to be a complete insult, although it was an unnecessary comment. I am a SAHM for that reason of my belief that I rather raise my child(ren) not a daycare. We are self-employed and God never fails to bless our business. We are very blessed. If fact some or most of the SAHMs can use one of their talents that God gave them to make some money. For instance, sewing, cooking, and gardening. I am a great cook and will soon start selling my awesome home-made salsa.
Though, Michelle and her family claim they are Christians is not of the main subjects here, but if I were to judge I would say they seem ignorant to Christ's beliefs and what the bible says. Many people call themselves Christians but there life shows little evidence of it, we all have to start somewhere (as most of us). Most (not all) liberal beliefs are against or compromise the bible. And Michelle and her family have strong liberals beliefs, more the reason Christians should vote
harmonno98
7/11/2008 8:12 AM
To the ladies who disagree with this article, as a Bible-believing Christian several things stand out from Mrs. Obamas comments. 1) She and her husband "profess" to be Christian, but careful analysis of their beliefs about scripture and the Lordship of Jesus himself, if they're saved, then their confessions are anti-Christ. Dr. Dobson nailed it pretty good of their understanding of scripture. They don't oppose sin, they promote it, ie. abortion, infantacide,homosexuality,punishing achievement, etc. That is her frame of reference, so as she speaks before liberal women who have no regard for God's Word, getting their approval, what else could you expect? The Bible says women, are to "guide the Home"(1Tim. 5:14). She dismisses the y don't care if she and Barack are around during the day, just as long as they show up at bedtime, oh yea right???
laticeisone
7/10/2008 10:24 PM
I agree that this article is worst than Obama's comment. Paul clearly warned us to walk out our own salvation. If it is your familiy choice to stay at home then do it with all zeal and service to the Lord, if another family decides they want to work, whether they have a choice or not, why should they be judge for that decision. I'm sure Michelle gives more nuture, care, and time to her children then just bed time! I think her comment is taken out of context. The fact of the matter is nothing is to hard for God and he can and still will bless the child of a working mother or and a stay at home Mom. Nothing is to hard for God.
KCinMI
7/9/2008 4:35 PM
As a SAHM, I found the author's comments more offensive than Obama's. This paragraph, for example, has an air of "martyr complex" to it: "Stay-at-home moms sacrifice finances, a bigger house, a ski vacation, a red convertible and instead opt for a 10-year-old minivan so they can shuttle their children to and from school and baseball. They’ve traded in their slick business attire for jeans and a t-shirt, better suited to pick up a child that has a runny nose and dirty shoes."

I know SAHMS who have big houses, nice cars, and dress in...well, maybe not "slick business attire", but not exactly stuff off the clearance rack at Wal-Mart either.

Why is it that people insist on trying to validate their own choices by tearing other people down? He and his wife are clearly happy with their choice. If that is the case, and they believe that they're following God's will for their family, that should be enough for him. This article smacks of an attempt to whip up some election-year drama.
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