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Spare the Rod? Parents Just Won't Get With the Science

Spare the Rod? Parents Just Won't Get With the Science

Albert Mohler

President, Southern Baptist Theological Seminary


October 16, 2008

Alan E. Kazdin is a frustrated man, and it's America's parents who are frustrating him.  These parents are, of all things, prone to use an occasional spanking in disciplining their children.  Dr. Kazdin's great frustration is that these parents insist on doing what seems right to them, and thus they are ignoring or rejecting the fact that "science" shows that spankings don't work.

Dr. Kazdin is John M. Musser Professor of Psychology and Child Psychiatry at Yale University and director of the university's Parenting Center and Child Conduct Clinic.  Writing at Slate.com, Kazdin argues that parents just don't get it -- "The typical parent, when whacking a misbehaving child, doesn't pause to wonder: 'What does science have to say about the efficacy of corporal punishment?'"  No kidding.  Is the parent supposed to go review the scientific data before dealing with a disobedient child?  Just how out of touch can the folks at Yale be?

Slate.com is one of the most interesting digital magazines yet to appear.  It leans predictably leftward, but offers some of the brightest reportage to be found anywhere in today's journalism. Nevertheless, Kazdin's article, "Spare the Rod: Why You Shouldn't Hit Your Kids," reads more like a parody of an article than as a serious article in a serious magazine.

After acknowledging that parents do not pause to ask the science question before "whacking a misbehaving child," Kazdin concedes that most American parents admit to spanking and that most children and adolescents (85%) report having been spanked.

"Parents cite children's aggression and failure to comply with a request as the most common reasons for hitting them," Kazdin reports.  But, he insists, science shows that spanking just doesn't work over time.  Though spanking may produce an immediate change in the child's behavior, children are "endowed with wonderful flexibility and ability to learn" and adapt to punishments faster "than parents can escalate it."

Of course, that same flexibility and ability to learn could well explain why spanking does work, but that would not fit Kazdin's line of argument, to say the least.

Professor Kazdin provides an indictment of spanking that includes the charge that parents generally can't stop themselves from "stepping up from a mild, generally harmless dose to an excessive and harmful one."  He even suggests that spanking is addictive . . . like smoking cigarettes.

Here is some of the scientific research Professor Kazdin wants America's parents to take into account:

The negative effects on children include increased aggression and noncompliance—the very misbehaviors that most often inspire parents to hit in the first place—as well as poor academic achievement, poor quality of parent-child relationships, and increased risk of a mental-health problem (depression or anxiety, for instance). High levels of corporal punishment are also associated with problems that crop up later in life, including diminished ability to control one's impulses and poor physical-health outcomes (cancer, heart disease, chronic respiratory disease). Plus, there's the effect of increasing parents' aggression, and don't forget the consistent finding that physical punishment is a weak strategy for permanently changing behavior.

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tourdejour
12/5/2008 11:40 PM
It's amazing how much children can learn by talking with them, explaining consequences of behavior. It's also interesting to see a child get a swat to teach them to stop hitting. They seem to pick up quickly on what is done by reacting with impatience versus something done from a thoughtful heart, even if it is in the form of a swat.
torath
11/14/2008 5:53 AM
Spanking and physical discipline are Biblical as the above post listed but also in those verses is the command to correct and teach. Just hitting a child will not help but a firm but gentle smack can and does work to get their attention, let them know who is in charge and instantly get them to stop misbehaving so you can then sit down with them and talk about the incident and why they were physically disciplined. Yes some kids will not respond well to physical discipline but others respond to little else. It is up to a parent to use wisdom on how they discipline a child and other Christians to realize that our form of discipline may not line up with another person, but we have no right to step in or judge them ("Christian commentators that advocate spanking lose credibility immediately.") unless they are harming the child in some way.
Katiejo42
11/12/2008 4:23 PM
I can see that the Bible does talk about 'the rod of correction' but I believe that refers to discipline in general.
I would much prefer to discipline without physical punishment. One day my son is going to be bigger than me, and I don't want to have taught him that it's okay to pick on weaker vulnerable people.
How can we tell a child off for hitting if we spank him at home? I want to teach my son to express anger, frustration and annoyance at people without hitting out. How can I teach him if I don't model that behaviour?
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