How Busy Moms Can Better Manage Their Time
How can I possibly accomplish everything on my to-do list and still keep my sanity?
How can I make time for family when work is so busy?
How can I sleep more restfully?
These are just a few of the questions that millions of us, as moms, ask ourselves on a daily basis. In a demanding, busy lifestyle, we are all battling exhaustion and how to manage our time more effectively to be the best moms we can be. Here are a few things that I’ve discovered help me to keep some balance and keep my schedule in check:
You must have a plan. Once you have a plan in place, tweaks and adjustments can be made, as you deem appropriate. But the first step is to actually have a plan! If you lack a plan, typically, you will accomplish the first thing that arises. The problem is that the first thing that arises isn’t necessarily the priority of the day. For example, you go into the storage closet at work to retrieve more printer paper. After digging for 5 minutes to locate it, you decide that the storage closet could really use some organizing, so you begin the enormous task of reorganization. Two hours later, you have made some progress in the storage closet, but your desk is piled high with more important priorities. While the closet needed some attention, there were other things that are more pressing. If we aren’t careful in planning, we will be pulled from task to task, never really accomplishing anything, but tiredness, nevertheless. Plan first.
Implement family time. You absolutely must schedule time with your kids – quality time. If you are a mother with children still in the home, and most of you are, you must recognize immediately that this is merely a season of life, and in the blink of an eye, it will be gone. Parenting is a small season of your life, and it is quickly fleeting, so take advantage of some family time. Failure to implement scheduled family time means that most of us carry the burden of guilt that we aren’t a good enough mom or that we are short-changing our children by having to work outside the home. Schedule the time and make it a quality experience for your children, so that when you are at work, you can be present at work.
Have a more productive day versus a busy day. As previously mentioned, none of us struggle with too little to do. We are all pulled with an endless list of tasks, but we must focus on production versus reaction. The quality of how you perform the work is often more important than the quantity of the work.
Have fun. Too many of us are going throughout our jobs, homes, and relationships in a way that is busy, stressed, etc. And we are never really enjoying the moment. We’re at home worrying about our job and at the job worrying about home. Make it a point to actually enjoy what you are doing. Recall why you took the job or how much you enjoy your children. Choose to focus on the joys of parenthood versus the to-do list. Choose to focus on why your job makes a difference in your community or in the quality of the lives of others versus the actual tasks. Sometimes, an impromptu dance party at the copy machine may be just what you need to lighten the load, get a few laughs from colleagues, and actually enjoy your day! Fun makes the managing of the rest of the day easier.
Rest. Statistics continually support that well-rested sleepers are more productive throughout their workday than those who struggle to get sound sleep. The number one cause of insomnia (barring medical issues) is a busy mind. We lay awake thinking of the 22 things that need to be accomplished tomorrow. Hebrews 4:9 says there is a “special rest waiting for the people of God.” Vs. 11 in the same chapter further challenges us to enter that rest. When we recognize that everything we have comes from God, every blessing, and that there is no challenge too big for Him, we’re able to truly rest in His peace. When we understand, fully, that He will not leave us to carry the tasks of our tomorrows alone, we can lay down the burdens of the day and get that sound sleep we need.
Jennifer Maggio is an award-winning author and speaker, whose personal journey through homelessness, abuse, and multiple teen pregnancies is leaving audiences around the globe riveted. At 19, Maggio was pregnant for the fourth time, living in government housing on food stamps and welfare. She shares with great openness, her pain, mistakes, and journey to find hope in Christ. She ultimately became an 11-time Circle of Excellence winner in Corporate America. While a vocal advocate for abstinence, and sustaining today’s marriages, Maggio recognizes that single parenthood exists and is passionate about seeing these parents thrive. She left her corporate successes behind to launch a global initiative to see single moms living a life of total freedom from financial failures, parenting woes, and emotional issues. Her passion is contagious, and her story has been used to inspire thousands around the globe. Today, Jennifer works to ensure that no single mom walks alone as the founder of the national profit, The Life of a Single Mom. For more information and resources, visit the website HERE.
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