Read Proverbs 12:1
Moral virtues; pitfalls of evil
God, in His infinite wisdom, has declared: He that spares his rod hates (has disregard for) his son: but he that loves him chastens (disciplines, corrects, restrains) him betimes (diligently and promptly) (Proverbs 13:24).
The greatest acts of love we can do for our children's future is to teach them obedience and respect — first to Christ as their personal Savior and Lord of their lives, then to their parents and all who are in authority, including schoolteachers and law enforcement officers (see I Timothy 2:1-2). This obedience should also extend to the laws of our government (see Matthew 22:21). As a prerequisite to teaching a child submission to authority, it is vital that parents consistently show submission to authority by their own example.
The rod is a symbol of authority that God has committed to parents for training their children. To apply that rod means to exercise that authority. The rod must be administered firmly yet lovingly. Using the rod of authority does not mean that parents should release their bottled-up frustrations by shouting demands, slapping faces, or severely spanking. These are examples of mental and physical abuse. We must not expect adult maturity from our small children. They need the same loving-kindness and patience from us that we desire from our Heavenly Father. Even mature Christians are prone to forget how many times the Lord, with long-suffering love, has forgiven our sins and failures throughout the years.
Biblical discipline follows the example of our loving Father in heaven, who corrects and disciplines everyone whom He loves (see Hebrews 12:6). The psalmist expressed it this way: Before I was afflicted (suffered, humbled) I went astray: but now have I kept Your Word (Psalm 119:67).
We can develop our children's respect for God-ordained authority and, at the same time, provide them with an assurance of both our love and God's love for them. In doing this, it is important to spend time with our children, especially reading the Bible and praying with them, in order to develop in them a concern for the things of God (see Deuteronomy 6:2-9; Proverbs 22:6).
12:1 brutish = without regard to reason or propriety; 12:11 vain = worthless; 12:25 Heaviness = Worry; maketh it stoop = causes depression; 13:11 vanity = dishonesty; 13:16 layeth open = exposes; 14:1 plucketh = tears; 14:23 penury = poverty; 15:1 grievous = harsh; 15:17 stalled = fattened; 15:27 gifts = bribes.
Pray for Government Officials: Rep. Timothy Johnson (IL) and Justice Anthony Kennedy · Country:
Memory Verse for the Week: 1 Thessalonians 4:16