<< Encouragement Café

Calling Out to the Woman Inside of Us - Encouragement Café - December 30, 2019

  • 2019 Dec 30

Calling Out to the Woman Inside of Us
 By Samantha Jackel

She opens her mouth in wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.  Proverbs 31:26 NASB

My childhood and teenage years were spent in emotional silence. If any emotion was shown it would either be ignored or used against me. The emotional neglect worked its way out into my early adult life. In my early 20’s I found my voice ‐ which was not always a positive thing! I wore my emotions on the outside ‐ if I was angry I showed it, if I had an opinion you needed to hear it and during that ‘time of month’ I was entitled to act and react any way I wanted.’

I remember being challenged by my husband who told me that I needed to get my emotions in line, that they were “out of control” and that I was using my menstrual cycle to excuse my behaviour. Believe me I didn’t like what I heard! My emotions and moods were controlling me and I found that I was being tossed and turned like the waves in the sea – I was unstable in all of my ways.

With lots of prayer and practical help from my husband, I was able to turn the emotional rollercoaster that I was on around. It took discipline, hard work and self‐control to hold my tongue. And there were times that I had to remove myself from situations where I knew I could spiral out of control. That little bit of hard work has made a lifetime of joy and victory – I am no longer an emotional clanging gong!

I love what Paul writes in Corinthians 13:11 (NLT), “When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.” I want to encourage you as women to consider Paul’s words and to grow into being dignified women of God. I want to be part of a generation of women who are respected and known as being women who practice self‐control over their emotions and over their tongues, women known for their godliness and wisdom – not for their moods and excessive emotional behaviour.

What does a dignified woman of God look like and how does she react? Proverbs speaks of a woman who can be trusted (she does not gossip) and who can encourage good and does not cause harm. She is energetic and strong. She is clothed with strength and dignity, she laughs without fear of the future (she is not anxious). When she speaks, her words are wise (she thinks before she speaks), and she gives instruction with kindness. 

Lord I pray that You would teach us and enable us to grow into the women that You have called us to be. Women of dignity and self‐ control, women that can teach the next generation how to stand against the pull of the world, women that are dignified in all situations. Lord, help us to have self‐ control in the areas of our lives that are out of control to bring glory to You.

For more encouragement, visit Samantha at My Purple Pants.

© 2019 by Samantha Jackel. All rights reserved.

Do you know Jesus Christ as your personal Savior?  Pull up a chairHe’s been waiting for you.

Need a refill?  Please join us at the Encouragement Café with Luann and Friends

The conversation at the Café is always hot and fresh.  We invite you to listen in as we gather around the table to discuss everyday life.

Comfort food for your soul is always on our menuand friends are always close enough to hug.  We invite you to join us daily, as our writer’s share how the Lord continues to transform them into His glorious image.

Still craving more…Join us as we grow together in grace and truth through our online bible study.

Stop by Encouragement Café and listen as the girls share life. Find podcasts, videos, Bible studies, prayer, resources and daily helpings of hope, laughter and friendship around our table. We've saved a seat just for you!




More Encouragement Café Articles

Follow Crosswalk.com