by Margaret D. Mitchell
It came between Cain and Able, between Joseph and his brothers and between Jesus and the high priests—jealousy. It destroys relationships. It is evil. And, yes, it can even produce murder driven by insatiable lust.
Proverbs 27:4 tells us, “Anger is cruel, and wrath is like a flood, but jealousy is even more dangerous.” This kind of jealousy is from the Greek word zeó, which means to boil over, to seethe. The Geneva Study Bible notes for this scripture tell us that “the envious are obstinate and cannot be reconciled.” Gills Exposition of the Entire Bible tells us that “envy continues and abides and works insensibly” even when wrath and anger have ended and even though we may appease the person. I believe that when jealousy endangers a relationship, God can reveal it to us as a means of safeguarding us. He may even cut off that relationship, prune that jealous person out of our lives so that we can continue to grow in Him without the distraction and destruction that jealousy inherently brings. Is there anyone you need to let go of?
James 3:14-16 tells us, "But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your heart, don't cover up the truth with boasting and lying. For jealousy and selfishness are not God's kind of wisdom. Such things are earthly, unspiritual, and demonic. For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind."
There is no godly power in jealousy. Jealousy is rooted in selfishness. It’s an “all about me” mindset, self-driven and self-reliant, which is the essence of the enemy. Sadly, when adopted, jealousy blocks us from seeing God’s truth of His abundance for us, and our appetite for more in our own power becomes insatiable, like a predator, a devouring spirit. Wolves are like this. They are driven by fresh blood. The more they taste, the more they desire. An effective method for ranchers to kill wolves is to make popsicles out of lambs blood and razors. The wolves are drawn by the scent of blood; they bite into the razor-popsicle sticking out of the ground, which cuts their mouths; they become more driven by their own blood; so they keep biting until they bleed to death. Sad but true.
There is deception and shame in jealousy. If the enemy can hook us into his lust by lying to us that others have what we do not, he can cause us to become idolaters. Once hooked, lust become insatiable, and we may be tempted to lie to cover it up. And the vicious cycle of deception and shame continues.
There is fruitlessness in jealousy. Do you know any fruitless people who envy those who move in God’s power and are bless accordingly? They want God’s power, and they want to be fruitful; but they don’t want to humble and sacrifice self to get it. So the paradox that prevails in their lives is a pretense of position, but greater power and strength remains fleeting. Such was the case of the Sadducees.
John 15:2 tells us that God prunes away every branch within us that bears no fruit. Verse 4 tells us that we cannot bear fruit unless we remain in Him. Verse 6 tells us that if we do not remain in Him, we are like a thrown away branch. Do we submit to God? Are we choosing to remain in Him? Many of us have our fire insurance, but are we living God’s principles? Do we love Him enough to follow Him at any cost to us? Or are we half-hearted? Have we donned the garment of salvation but resisted the robe of righteousness (Isaiah 61:10-11)? Are our priorities in right order, according to God? Is there anyone or anything that we covet?
When we keep our eyes on God, when we know who we are in Christ, how much He loves us, how unique and special we are to Him, we may be less inclined to envy others. Also, if we could see all the circumstances of others’ lives, we would be able to see their struggles, disappointments, hurts, difficult relationships, etc., and, therefore, may be less likely to envy them. Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves of this and simply trust God.
I believe it’s okay to go to God and ask Him, “What about me?” I believe God will even allow people to serve at catalysts in our lives to provoke us to ask this question. I also believe He delights in us when we thank Him for who He is and what He has already done for us. And I believe God extends special favor to those who sincerely live His will in their hearts. I believe He is especially pleased with us when we do this. He can’t help but pour out His blessings. It is God’s nature of love to do so.
In your heart of hearts, is there anyone you envy? If so, repent and submit to the Lord’s plan for your life. Ask Him to get you where He wants you to be and for you to receive all He has for you. When we fully submit, He will take us to heights we could never go to alone. Have you been the object of envy? Know that God is with you. He will never forsake you. Choose to forgive those who are jealous of you; and keep stepping in righteousness, no matter what. Ask God to bring new friends to you of His choosing. Then receive even more of His blessings.
Margaret D. Mitchell is the Founder of God's Love at Work, a marketplace outreach purposed to share God's greatest power source - the love of Christ. This devotional was adapted from Margaret's forthcoming book, Enduring Grace. All rights reserved.