Dr. David B. Hawkins

He argued that his unfaithfulness was wrong, but was now over. She argued that his past meant he would always be in danger and could not be...

You can’t make him listen to you. He can’t make you listen to him. We can only put ourselves in an emotional and spiritual space where someone...

I have often said, “There must be a breakdown for there to be a breakthrough.” Here are some additional strategies that must take place to have a...

Withdrawing is not something new. Watch your four year old pout and you’ll recognize the early signs of ‘the silent treatment.’

Scripture offers many examples of people who violated God’s laws and felt shame afterward.

Internal changes lead to external changes. If he has changed internally—a heart change—you will see evidence in his actions.

How are you going to stay clear, calm and connected with a passive-aggressive man? It will not be easy, but it can be done.

We often say we crave more intimacy with our mate, yet we are unable to give it. We say we want closeness but don't know how to obtain it.

Desperate and having read the latest articles and books about emotional abuse and narcissism, many women feel discouraged and wonder if there...

While there are many questionnaires to assess your marriage, I have a simple method for determining whether or not you need immediate help.

What do we do if we find ourselves alone and lonely, longing for a “special someone” with whom we can share life?

These three traits can be cultivated in your marriage. It will take focus, intention and determination. Agree with your mate on this “3 Step Plan”...

Changing a habit is harder than we might think. Letting go of a long-term pattern of behavior can be difficult at best, nearly impossible at worst....

Opportunity plus vulnerability equals catastrophe. If you don’t know your vulnerabilities, you can be taken off guard by them.

As you take the time to listen to your mate, value what they have to say. Honor their feedback and respond to that information.

Bad behavior is often learned and then repeated. Bad behavior practiced over and over leads to habits—habits that interrupt an otherwise healthy...

Cry out and the Lord will hear you and aid you in your struggles. Speak out. Know that emotional abuse is wrong and hurtful and can only perpetuate...

Listening to someone's heart is a more profound act of connection than simply hearing their words, as it requires understanding and validating...