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Paul Coughlin
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No More Christian Nice Girl: Speaking the Truth in Love and Grace
When you accept delivery on truckloads of disrespectful treatment, you are teaching immature people that they can continue to misuse you.
December 12, 2010
How Being Too Nice Wrecks Your Relationships
False niceness can never and will never produce an authentic relationship, just like weeds won't magically produce zinnias.
November 18, 2010
More of God's Good Women
God's Good Women inspire young and old, male and female.
November 08, 2010
God's Good Women
God loves a spirited woman who does more than sit with her hands folded as the world crumbles.
October 23, 2010
Anxious and Overprotective Parents
God takes the sin of cowardice very seriously.
October 09, 2010
Sifted Sugar
Not every girl is blessed with a female role model who blazes a trail that gives others hope that they, too, can follow the same path.
September 21, 2010
Church Girls Gone Mild
Girls learn cattiness from sitting at the knee of the Nice Girl culture, in and outside of church.
August 23, 2010
Sugar and Spice and How We Learned to Act Nice
Many women have been deeply hurt by their own gender.
July 26, 2010
For Christian Nice Girls: Real Goodness
Merely avoiding bad things doesn't make women good.
July 12, 2010
No More Christian Nice Girl
Your mother may have said, "You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar," but Jesus wants you to do far more than manipulate people with...
June 14, 2010
The Courage to Say No
I'm not going to pretend I don't have strengths when I do--that's just a churchy way of lying.
June 05, 2010
Courage and Faith
An isolated man is not a courageous man, at least not for very long.
May 11, 2010
Grief Work
I tricked him, not so he would feel grief but so he would feel relief, which came through grieving.
April 24, 2010
Courage and Creativity
In order for our faith to remain alive and vibrant, for us to play our part in taking the courageous steps necessary to imitate Christ, we need...
March 22, 2010
Lessons From the Rescuers
Our "ideal Christian kid," boy or girl, is pusillanimous (lacking courage and manly strength), having the character and nature of a small animal,...
March 15, 2010
Christianity: Not for Pollyanna People
Cynicism is gossip with hair on its chest.
February 22, 2010
Cynicism: Thumos-Freezing
Study any important facet of life and there you will find scores of cynics who once believed in that arena but were somehow hurt in it.
February 08, 2010
Materialism: Thumos-Numbing
Materialism is like drinking salt water: No matter how much you gulp, you're still thirsty.
January 24, 2010
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