Desperate Times
Desperate Times
God, deliver me. Hurry to help me, Lord! (Ps. 70:1)
Tina clutched her purse and left the middle school principal’s office. Though she had told Mr. Chapman about her son Pete’s difficulties with some of the boys in his PE class, she didn’t feel her meeting had accomplished anything. It seemed to Tina that the principal’s remarks about “boys being boys” indicated he didn’t grasp how intense the bullying had become.
She started the car but didn’t drive away from the school immediately. Instead Tina talked with God about her frustrations over the bullies who taunted Pete almost every day. Lord, I don’t know what to do about this situation, Tina pled. Pete is becoming increasingly sullen and fearful, but no one seems to be willing or able to intervene. Please do something!
Sitting in the car, Tina began to feel God’s presence. Hope and strength started to fill her heart again. She switched off the ignition and headed back into the school. She knew that God was working on her behalf, but Tina also was determined to enlist Mr. Chapman’s cooperation. Pete was too important to her to “just wait and see what happens,” and she felt God prompting her to be her son’s advocate.
Bullying has become a widespread problem and must be addressed. Counselors suggest that you begin with a child’s teacher and move up to the principal and beyond if the problem continues.
Throughout the Gospels we see examples of hurting, confused, and desperate parents coming to Jesus for help with their child (see John 4:46–54; Luke 8:40–56; and Mark 9:14–27). In each situation Jesus expressed compassion and reassurance. He took the concerns of these weary and frightened parents seriously. He takes your concerns seriously too. Let Him walk you through those crisis moments as a parent. He’ll give you wisdom and grace to carry on.