Playing Games
Playing Games
I will not set anything worthless before my eyes. (Ps. 101:3)
When I heard sounds of explosions and gunfire coming from the computer, I quickly stepped into the family room to see what my ten-year-old son was up to. Zachary was engrossed in a video game containing a level of violence that is usually reserved for R-rated movies. I picked up the case and saw that it was rated “M” for mature players. Not even “T” for teens. “Zach, where did you get that video game?” I asked.
“Austin let me borrow it. He said it was really cool.”
“Does Austin’s mom know he has this?”
Zachary shrugged. “His cousin gave it to him.” I sighed and silently prayed for wisdom. “I don’t want you to play this game anymore. You and Dad and I have talked about our rules for TV and video games, and I don’t think this one is good for you.” Zachary crossed his arms and stuck out his lip. I knew he wanted to argue the point, but he knew I wasn’t going to give in.
I spoke with Austin’s mom the next day. She hadn’t paid attention to the rating symbols when she saw the game and didn’t realize it contained such violence and explicit material. She thanked me for keeping her informed, and I thanked God for giving me discernment to discuss the situation with her in a way that didn’t condemn her or her son.
Video games have come a long way since the days of PacMan, Super Mario Brothers, and Donkey Kong. Technology has made them much more realistic, and gamers have a vast selection from which to choose. But decide as a family which games are appropriate for your children, and stay informed. Ask God to guide you as you navigate a world of seemingly infinite choices in entertainment.