Root of the Problem

Make sure that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no root of bitterness springs up. (Heb. 12:15)

Everyone else seemed completely engaged in the pastor’s words, but Ella couldn’t even focus on the message. Ever since Pastor Randy had neglected to visit her daughter in the hospital during her tonsillectomy, Ella had struggled with her attitude toward him. But while she continued to feel justified in her anger, she also longed to hear a word from God again.

Unable to concentrate, Ella thumbed through her Bible and landed on a familiar story. She began to read about Joseph in the book of Genesis. She remembered that Joseph had forgiven his brothers much greater offenses. Reading through chapter 45, she understood that Joseph had kept from growing bitter by looking at his circumstances from God’s perspective.

During the closing prayer Ella asked God to forgive her for harboring anger toward her pastor. She recalled the many times he had been faithful and the personal sacrifices he made to serve his flock. As she walked by him after the service, Ella extended her hand, smiled, and said with sincerity, “I’m looking forward to next week’s sermon.”

We all get our feelings hurt, and sometimes we become angry. But the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:26–27 to deal with our anger quickly so it doesn’t fester and become a tool of Satan. He can use our bitterness to sever relationships, put distance between us and God, damage our testimony, drown out the voice of the Holy Spirit, and steal our joy.

When someone or something hurts or angers you, resist the temptation to nurse that wound. Instead, ask God to help you see things from His vantage point and bring healing to your broken heart. Keep your heart soft and offer genuine forgiveness.