She had tried a singles Sunday school class but felt awkward. She had even joined a community book club but felt like she didn’t fit in. Besides, her job took so much out of her, she only wanted to veg out in front of the TV in the evenings. Still, she did wish she were more connected and not so lonely.

Father, what should I do to connect more with others? Becky prayed. She immediately remembered overhearing a conversation as she walked to the sanctuary last Sunday about how there weren’t enough workers in the nursery on Sunday mornings. Serving in the nursery would be something she could do well and a way to get to know others.

If we’re honest, many of us think singleness is a curse, not a blessing. Paul, however, had something different to say. He said, “God gives the gift of single life to some. . . . When you’re unmarried, you’re free to concentrate on simply pleasing the Master” (1 Cor. 7:7, 32 msg). Regardless of the reason, being single is an opportunity to use your time to serve as God leads you.

Perhaps He is leading you to teach a class, commit to being a prayer warrior, volunteer with a local ministry, or go on a short-term mission trip. Looked at with the right perspective, singleness can be an open door, a state of freedom that offers new opportunities. Ask God to show you how to make the most of it.