Grief
Grief
The Lord is near the brokenhearted; He saves those crushed in spirit. (Ps. 34:18)
Grief and Loss
Your soul always grieves its losses—emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually. And men often grieve in their own way. Some men feel awkward displaying emotion. Others grieve in silence and secrecy. Some men cover their heartache with anger or a façade of humor. Other guys busy themselves in work or play—anything to stay ahead of the sadness that pursues them.
But sooner or later you must face it. You must grieve your losses. And you can start by bringing your pain to the one Friend who is best able to handle it.
Grief and Grace
Jesus felt the weight of every human sorrow. He was “a man of suffering” (Isa. 53:3). So make Him the first one you turn to when you’re dealing with grief. He won’t shame you, and He won’t add a single ounce to your burden. As Counselor, He will help you map your way through the pain to wholeness. As the Good Shepherd, His job is to comfort and protect His sheep. And as Savior, He promises a full eternity to make up for every loss, no matter how painful.
Whatever you need, Jesus is willing and able to supply. He supplies His healing grace directly as you spend time with Him in prayer. He also supplies it indirectly as you live in community with God’s people. You don’t have to grieve alone. Jesus understands the sadness you feel, and He is with you to help.
Bottom Line
When you feel sad, you have a Friend who feels your sadness with you, and over time and eternity He is able to heal you completely.