10 Books You Should Read This Year

1. I Love Jesus, But I Want To Die by Sarah J. Robinson

When I first found this book, I thought in my heart, “Yikes.” Do I really love Jesus and want to die? Do other people truly feel this way? Maybe I’m not alone?

I’ve been blessed to never suffer with thoughts of “wanting to die.” While my father has and often is suicidal, those are struggles I'm unfamiliar with. I do not know what depression feels like to the extent that one wants to die. However, I do know what depression feels like when you want to go to sleep and not wake up until things are better. Until the pain is gone. Until the anxiety ceases. Until the trauma has forsaken its ugly scars.

To anyone who struggles with mental health, this book is for you (though trigger warnings are clearly labeled in the book).

As someone who dreams of writing nonfiction books about mental health, this book was an eye-opener for me. The author writes in a friendly, compelling, and helpful tone. Every chapter was written not only with Sarah’s story but with practical applications for you to take away. It didn’t feel like a self-help book. It felt like a friend writing to someone they love from a place of experience yet still struggling themselves. A memoir. But a memoir with an emphasis on the readers and how to help them.

I’m excited to read rich resources like this along the way to full-time authorship that encourage, inspire, and equip me for the journey.

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2. Sometimes I Lie by Alice Feeney

The main premise of Sometimes I Lie follows the story of a woman alternating between her paralyzed present and a series of childhood diaries from twenty years ago. In a brilliant psychological thriller, twists and turns fill every step. Just when you think you've solved the case, you realize you haven't been paying attention at all.

Although this is not a Christian book, I was enthralled. I think it took me about a week to read, but that was only because I had to go to work and get other things done. If I could’ve had the time, I would’ve read the entire book in one sitting. While I know how people sometimes feel about books that are not rooted in biblical principles, this book was really helpful for me. It was nice to just read fun fiction.

In the future, I'm considering adding psychological thrillers to my repertoire. I could see myself writing nonfiction, psychologically thrilling fiction, and poetry. What types of books would you consider writing or reading?

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3. Daisy Darker by Alice Feeney

If you’re looking for an October story filled with mystery, suspense, and tension, Daisy Darker is for you.

As someone who loves murder mystery books, I was thrilled to find a book that had minimal cursing and inappropriate scenes. I love Alice Feeney as an author, but she occasionally uses both of those things in her books. Fortunately, this book didn’t.

I used the audio for reading because I’ve been so busy, but I enjoyed that. The reader had an accent and it was fun to hear the story aloud. It almost felt like something from Clue.

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4. On Writing Well by William Zinsser

Friends. I read this book during one of the most stressful times of my life, but I still thoroughly enjoyed it.

I have to be honest. I had a really hard time reading it and staying interested. I also used the audio for the second half because I found myself re-reading the same lines over and over again, dying of boredom/getting lost in some of the stories. Especially the long-winded ones illustrating how not to write.

Overall, however, On Writing Well presents a lot of practical tips for writing non-fiction. It’s not the type of book I would sit down and read for enjoyment. However, there were a lot of tips, tricks, and tidbits I immediately took note of. For example, the ability to be clear, concise, compelling, and authentic, for one.

In an oddity, some of my favorite chapters were the most unlikely ones. For example, I never see myself writing about science or math, but the chapter that talked about those subjects was fascinating to me. I was the kid who was told she just didn’t have a math or science brain. But the revelation that math and science people can be writers too was compelling. My husband, for example, works in IT. I always wondered why he could write well even though he didn’t have an English and art brain. I now understand it. Anyone who can think clearly can write clearly. Mind-blown!

My other favorite chapters included the ones about memoirs, places, and personal family history. I’ve often struggled to balance sharing too much information and not enough. But Zinsser notes this is your story. Get it all out now and then worry about permission and what others will think second. Sometimes, it’s honestly so therapeutic to get it all out now and then edit and consider others later.

I’ve also always seen myself as the type of person to become a traveling writer because of my love for nature, mountains, and the world around us. (Side note: I was a journalist in college and loved it.) The tips that Zinsser presented have made me feel well-equipped to continue into my author career.

I also found it profound in Chapter 23, that the common denominator all writers struggle with is knowing how to organize what they want to write about. Research says I'm not the only one to struggle with this!

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5. Try Softer by Aundi Kobler

Try Softer is a beautiful guide on living out the gospel in a way that combats today's "try harder" dogma.

I chose to read this book because it was recommended to me by Brett Harris. My husband Ben and I decided to listen to it on our honeymoon and it was amazing.

Stylistically, I learned a lot from Aundi. Her ability to tell stories, using her own and others was powerful. The language, content, and style are focused, clear, and emotional. The deep places she writes and reflects from are depths I, too, want to explore.

Content-wise, I love the author's ability to zone in on every chapter but also provide practical steps. She continually uses stories and analogies, but relational ones.

In a lot of ways, Aundi’s story and content reflect what I want to write. I’m learning a lot from the book even after finishing it, trying to be softer now from a new place of healing.

6. Know Your Endo by Jessica Murnane

7. After Dark with Roxie Clark by Brooke Lauren Davis

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8. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

This book was a required read for my second year of study at the Author Conservatory. Although I don't love educational texts, how I escaped college and many of my adult years without hearing about this book blows my mind.

At first, I must admit I was skeptical. The opening chapters bored me a little, and at certain points, I thought to myself, Good gully, this guy likes to use stories. Now that I’ve finished it, however, I am in awe of how many nuggets have stayed with me. I’m also impressed with how much easier it is for me to now integrate stories into my own writings.

While I could write down hundreds of nuggets from this gem, I’ll leave you with one of my favorites. In Section 2, Chapter 4, Dale encourages us to be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. I have tried this in my personal and professional life, and it has truly made all the difference.

Not only do people feel cared for, but they generally end up caring for me as well. People are desperate for someone to listen to them. Taking the time to simply ask someone in the hallway “Are you okay?” instead of “How are you?” proves your sincerity for them.

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9. Night by Elie Wiesel

Because I am a teacher, I believe that Wiesel has a unique and admirable style as a writer. This non-fiction memoir is heartbreaking and empathetic. It highlights what it was like to experience the Holocaust and grapple with one's faith.

Although this book is about the Holocaust, it's an excellent analysis of mental health in the face of crises, especially in relation to faith. 

By definition, faith is defined as:
1. A complete trust or confidence in someone or something.
2. A strong belief in God or the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.
Hebrews 11:1 says faith is being sure of that which we cannot see. One of Night's themes is the topic of religion and faith.

Faith is first mentioned when Elie pursues learning about his faith with Moishe the Beadle. He studies "the Talmud during the day, the Kabbalah at night." Moishe guides him in his studies and asks questions such as, "Why do you pray?" These questions serve as an outline for Elie to follow as he questions and explores the Jewish faith.

Many scholars argue that Night portrays a loss of faith, however, it is clear that at the end of his life, he still believes in God and a life after death. His religion may have changed, but he still believes in God’s power and the afterlife.

As a faith and mental health writer, this concept of faith, pain, and inhumanity are all themes I want to explore. While the Holocaust is significantly different and worse than the physical and mental anguish I have experienced, it has given me more appreciation, growth, and reflection for learning.

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10. The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

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