Pausing to Praise the Lord - The Crosswalk Devotional - April 10

What to Do When Shame Sneaks In
By Emily Rose Massey

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Corinthians 5:17, ESV).

A couple of years ago, a very dear friend and I launched an online support group for women who have come out of false teaching. As we have come alongside of them and helped them process very hurtful and confusing situations, we have seen the damage of spiritual manipulation, error, and sin in their lives. We utilize Zoom to facilitate monthly meetings online with women all over the globe whose lives have been touched by deception in some way, but by the mercy of God, their eyes have been opened to the lies that they were believing; They have been “snatched from the flames” of false teaching and even cult-like groups.

Our ultimate desire is to ensure that each woman in our group finds a sound, Biblical church in her area where she can find intimate Christian friendships as well as spiritual protection and edification from godly shepherds. Our heart is to meet these women where they are at, help them to realize that they are not alone on the journey, and point them to the truth as they untangle all the lies they embraced, some for many decades of their lives. Truthfully, we desire to make disciples as Christ has commanded us to do (Matthew 28).

In a recent meeting, the question was posed to the group if they struggled with the tension of their position as a born-again believer and the fact that they may still sin, since some of the ladies believed the lie that they could lose their salvation, which scripture does not support. One sister said that she experienced great doubt when she looked in the mirror because she has tattooed much of her body, which she regretted greatly because it was done with a rebellious heart. She questions her love for Jesus every time she looks in the mirror. I reminded her that the accuser of the brethren loves to shame us.

Many of us could relate to her struggle since we do experience the consequences of our actions on this side of eternity. Even if we do not have physical reminders like a tattoo, we have memories that often bring shame and condemnation if we do not renew our minds with the truth of God’s Word, which says we are forgiven and made new in Christ. My sweet friend quoted Romans 8:1 to encourage the ladies, and the verse that came to my mind at that moment was:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Corinthians 5:17, ESV).

The gift of this new life in Christ is not dependent on anything you have done or not done; it is dependent upon Christ’s finished work on the cross. If you are in Him, you have died with Him and have experienced the new birth—you have become born again!

Intersecting Faith & Life:

How often has the enemy tried to bring up your past to shame you or condemn you? I offered this opportunity to the women in our meeting, and I offer it to you too: when you are reminded of your rebellious and sinful past, or when you sin again and repent, instead of allowing shame and condemnation to overwhelm you, use that moment as an opportunity to pause and praise the Lord for your new life in Him. Thank Him for His saving and sanctifying grace that is changing you as you see yourself as a new creation day by day. He has made you a new creation! He has regenerated your heart, turning it from a heart of stone into a heart of flesh, given you the gift of the Holy Spirit to dwell inside you, and is making you new with each step! Your old ways have been buried with Christ, and you have been given new life in Him and new affections by His grace. Instead of hanging your head in shame the next time you are reminded of your shortcomings and failures, lift your eyes heavenward and lift your hands up in praise to the Savior, thanking Him for the gift of becoming a new creation for His glory.

Further Reading:
Ezekiel 36:26
Ephesians 4:22-24
Romans 8:9-10

Emily Massey began writing short stories and poetry as a little girl, entered the blogging world in her early 20s, and published her first book in 2015. She enjoys being a stay-at-home momma while still being able to pursue her passion as a writer. Believing she has been forgiven much, she loves much, and desires to point others to Christ and His redemptive and transforming power, especially by sharing truth found in God’s written Word. If you would like to connect with Emily, you can visit www.emilyrosemassey.com