“Be humble and give more honor to others than to yourselves.”Philippians 2:3 (NCV)
The Bible draws a clear distinction between pride and humility. While pride will tear down your relationships, humility builds them up and strengthens them.
But pride is self-deceiving. It can be hard for you to recognize it in yourself. Instead, try looking for the symptoms of pride, like criticism, competition, stubbornness, and superficiality. If you see some of those characteristics in yourself, you might have a problem with pride.
Proverbs 16:18 says, “Pride leads to destruction; a proud attitude brings ruin” (NCV). I like how the Message paraphrases this verse: “First pride, then the crash—the bigger the ego, the harder the fall.”
Pride destroys relationships, but humility is the antidote to pride. Humility builds relationships. The Bible says in 1 Peter 3:8, “Live in harmony, be sympathetic, love each other, have compassion, and be humble” (GW). And Philippians 2:3 instructs, “Be humble and give more honor to others than to yourselves” (NCV).
How can you grow in humility? By continually and consistently submitting your thoughts, heart, attitude, and choices to Jesus. You need to give him permission to make changes in your life. Ephesians 4:23-24 says, “Let the Spirit change your way of thinking and make you into a new person” (CEV).
How do you become a new person? How do you start to think in a different way? The basic law of relationships is this: You tend to become like the people you spend time with. If you spend time with grumpy people, you get grumpier. If you spend time with happy people, you get happier. So if you want to have more humility, spend time with Jesus Christ. Take time with him in prayer and reading his Word. He is humble, and as you get to know him, you’ll become more like him.
The Bible teaches, “You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. . . . When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God” (Philippians 2:5-8 NLT).
No one has lived with more humility than Jesus. He came to earth from heaven to become a man, live for us, give his life for us, and be resurrected for us. When you spend time with him, you become more humble, which in turn builds up your relationships for the better.
For more Daily Hope with Rick Warren, please visit pastorrick.com!
Your Gift Brings Hope to the World
Ground Yourself in God’s Word and Discover the Path to True Happiness
Scripture memorization is a powerful tool to help you remember God’s promises, principles, and the purposes he has for you.
That’s why Pastor Rick created the TheHabits of HappinessScripture card set—with 52 key verses from his teaching series, The Habits of Happiness, that will help you discover God’s path to true and lasting happiness.
These colorful, eye-catching cards make it easy to memorize the Word of God so you have it when you need it most.
We'll send you the The Habits of Happiness Scripture cards to say thanks for your gift below to share the hope of Jesus Christ with people around the world through Daily Hope.
So request the cards now—and experience the true happiness God wants for you!
*The USA IRS code permits you to deduct the amount of your financial gift to Daily Hope that exceeds the fair market value of “current offer” materials you received from Daily Hope.