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A Lifestyle of Obedience - Girlfriends in God - January 2, 2018

  • 2018 Jan 02

January 2, 2018
A Lifestyle of Obedience
Mary Southerland

Today’s Truth

If you love Me, you will obey what I command (John 14:15).

Friend to Friend

Obedience is an active choice to do what God wants us to do. Obedience is not just an outward motion, but an inner attitude as well.

I love the story of a small child who was running an errand with his dad. The little boy scrambled into the front seat of the car and stood beside his father. When the dad told his son that he had to sit down and put on his seat belt, the boy refused. “But Dad, if I sit down I can’t see anything,” he argued. The boy’s father smiled and said, “I know, Son. But I love you and want to take care of you. What if we had a wreck? Wearing a seat belt will keep you much safer than you would be standing up.” Folding his arms across his little chest, the boy refused to budge. His dad finally sat him down and buckled him in. The little boy looked up at his father with a fierce frown on his face and said, "I may be sitting down on the outside, but I'm still standing up on the inside."

I can so relate to the attitude of this little boy.

The Word of God clearly lays out God’s highest and best plans for my life, but I have a better plan. I just need God to sign off on it.

I want to pick and choose the commandments I obey – kind of like a spiritual smorgasbord.

There must be a shortcut to becoming a fully devoted follower of Christ. His way seems so hard and so costly.

Sin is often so much more fun than obedience – for a little while. It’s the consequences of that sin that are painful. And that is where peace comes in. The peace of God always follows our obedience to God. God does not ask us for a season of obedience. He wants a lifestyle of obedience.

King Solomon said it this way in Proverbs 3:6-7: “Remember the Lord in all you do, and He will give you success. Don't depend on your own wisdom. Respect the LORD and refuse to do wrong.”

Obedience is remembering and choosing God in everything we do, choosing to walk in His steps, and following the path He has set for us. 

Obedience calls us to live like citizens of a future world, guarding each step to make sure it matches the step of God. Not out of fear - but out of love. Not because man observes and keeps score, but because God sees you through eyes of love, and because we want to please Him.

Peter 1:14 (NLT) “Obey God because you are His children. Don't slip back into your old ways of doing evil; you didn't know any better then.”

We cannot come to Christ and keep responding to the world in the same way. When we truly encounter the living God, our behavior will change along with our perspective, our standards, our motives – everything.

In 2 Corinthians 5:17 Paul says that when we come to Christ, we become “a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” This holy discipline sounds like an impossible and overwhelming command. It is – unless it is fueled by the power of God in and through us.

Our son played football for many years. Different coaches tried to get Jered to play different positions, but they always ended up playing him as a fullback. College recruiters said he was a “throwback.” Jered was built like a true fullback; he ran like a true fullback, and he thought like a true fullback.

Jered rarely fumbled the ball, explaining his success in a way I remember to this day: “Most players who carry the ball either make the mistake of trying to create their own route or end up following the wrong guy. I have blockers assigned to me on every play. Their job is to make a path for me. The minute I get the ball, I put my head down, look for my blockers, watch their feet and follow them - right across the goal line.” 

God has already been where He wants us to go. All we have to do is look for Him, watch His steps, and then follow them – right across the finish line. Choose to live a lifestyle of obedience.

Let’s Pray

Father, I want to obey You. Forgive me when I let fear keep me from walking in Your steps or when I listen for the voice of others instead of Yours. Give me a hunger and thirst for Your Word. Help me grow up in You and become a mature believer whose life illustrates a radical obedience to God.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

Read Psalm 86:11 (NIV) “Teach me Your way, LORD, that I may rely on Your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear Your name."

The psalmist prays for an “undivided heart.” Examine your own heart. Is it divided? What does that mean to you and how does it impact your obedience to God?

More from the Girlfriends

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