Greg Laurie Harvest Daily Devotional

Please Help Provide Clean Water to Persecuted Christians
<< Greg Laurie Daily Devotions

Greg Laurie Daily Devotion - Sept. 22, 2011


Thursday, September 22, 2011

Mutual Submission

And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. —Ephesians 5:21

Sometimes people get offended because the Bible says that wives are to submit to their husbands (see Ephesians 5:22). They say they don’t like this because it is chauvinistic, and they will not submit to anyone. But here is the problem. That very attitude says to me that such a person will have problems in marriage.

First, let me give you the big picture: before a word is said in the Bible about wives submitting to their husbands or husbands loving their wives as Christ loves the church (which is no small feat, by the way), it says that we should submit ourselves to one another in the fear of God (see Ephesians 5:21).

So let’s not get upset about the fact that the Bible tells wives to submit to their husbands. Let’s remember the Bible also says that we are to submit to one another. And let’s understand the meaning of the actual word as it is being used. It is a military term that means “to rank beneath.” That doesn’t mean a husband is abdicating his responsibility of leadership in the home; it simply means that a husband is helping his wife to bear her burdens. It also means that a wife is doing the same for her husband.

How different marriages would be today if a husband and wife both entered into their marriage by asking themselves, How can I meet my spouse’s needs? How can I fulfill my spouse? I believe it would make all the difference in the world.

Instead, so many couples startout their marriage with an attitude that says, “I won’t do this, and you need to. . . .” But that is not the way marriage works. We are to submit to one another in the fear of God.

Summary sentence: Do you have trouble submitting to your spouse? Find out God’s heart on the matter.

Tags: marriage, submission

Copyright © 2011 by Harvest Ministries. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright 1996, 2004. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

For more relevant and biblical teaching from Pastor Greg Laurie, go to
Listen to Greg Laurie's daily broadcast on

Watch Greg Laurie's weekly television broadcast on


“To God Be the Glory”

Lost Boy: The Next Chapter has not only won awards at film festivals around the world, but—more importantly—has won hearts and lives for Christ. To share this story with an even wider audience, it is being released as an audio edition, including the documentary film, as a special ministry package. Lost Boy: The Next Chapter – Audio Edition and DVD is our gift to listeners for their donation of any amount.

You may have read Lost Boy, the book, when it first came out, but I think you will be blessed in an even deeper way by the rest of the story.”


More Greg Laurie Daily Devotions Articles