When You Feel Invisible: Remember You’re Fully Known and Deeply Loved by God - November 1, 2025
“Oh Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me” (Psalm 139:1, NIV).
Have you ever felt invisible? Unseen and uncared for? I don’t mean like a superhero with radical powers, but like no one truly “gets” you or cares to understand? I know I have. Maybe the people closest to you don’t understand what’s happening inside your heart and mind. Maybe your spouse or best friend lacks insight or empathy. Perhaps even God feels distant.
We all crave acceptance. We want to be known, valued, and chosen as we are. Sadly, instead of expressing this desire, we hide behind filters, fake smiles, and busyness. We might even lie to ourselves or those closest to us because we want to appear strong and fine, like we’ve got our lives together and don’t need anyone else.
In Psalm 139, David begins with what God knows about him. Unlike many traditional Psalms, which start by praising God for His never-ending qualities (love, faithfulness, mercy, grace, etc.), David marks Psalm 139 as a unique opportunity to see himself clearly through the eyes of Scripture and his Lord.
When David tells God, “You’ve examined my heart,” he means that God has thoroughly searched and explored his motives and intentions. David is raw and exposed before the Lord like an investigator who leaves nothing hidden. A little frightening, right? We know that God knows everything about us, but to bear our hearts, sins and all, vulnerably before Him is a bit overwhelming and scary.
And yet, David isn’t afraid. He says, “You’ve examined my heart and know everything about me.” Yep, everything. God knows, not just intellectually but through intimate understanding, the intricacies of David’s heart. This knowingness makes me think of the best relationships—born out of deep love, validation, and grace. Even exposed open before the Lord, God doesn’t just notice us; He studies us lovingly. He loves us as we are—His children.
Fully known and forever loved, God knows our innermost thoughts, motives, struggles, and fears. He knows what you did yesterday, last year, and two months ago, but He also knows what you’ll do in the future. And yet, He still chooses to love us. Not because He needs us, but because He desires to be in this personal relationship with us.
Friends, you don’t have to perform, impress, or hide from the Lord. 1. It’s not possible to run from His presence (even though a lot of us try). He knows and sees all but 2. He wants you to come to Him and struggle in all. Because in a world obsessed with superficial faces, God offers complete authenticity through and in Him.
People on earth will continue to let you down. You are going to feel unseen and uncared for from time to time. But in those moments, remember this: The Creator of the Universe chose you and loves you fully, flaws included.
If you’re struggling, try asking yourself these questions:
- What parts of myself do I try to hide from God?
- Am I honest with myself and others?
- In what ways do I try to conceal who I really am? Why do I do this?
- How does it change my perspective to know that God already knows — and still cares?
- How can I be a friend, spouse, co-worker, _____, that encourages others to live honestly with others?
Then, try implementing these small practices:
- Sit in silence for 5 minutes and ask God to search your heart.
- Take time to journal about your struggles in the morning and evening.
- Pray and set a timer for 10 minutes. After you’ve expressed your heart, set the timer for an additional 10 minutes and listen to hear. Be open to what the Lord may expose. Then, respond in love and obedience.
- Memorize Psalm 139:1 and recite it when you feel insecure.
- Share this truth with someone today. Be bold and explain that God desires us. We can come as we are.
Dear God, first and foremost, thank you for choosing to know and love me completely, flaws, fears, and desires included. As David says in Psalm 139, you know everything about me and my heart, and while that can seem scary, let it encourage me today. Please help me to rest in your grace instead of striving for others’ approval. Remind me that I am your child when I feel insecure or embarrassed. Teach me to live open-heartedly and open-handedly before you today. We love, praise, and thank you, Jesus. Amen.
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