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11 Steps to Find God When He Seems to be Missing

  • Whitney Hopler Crosswalk.com Contributing Writer
  • Updated Apr 13, 2015
11 Steps to Find God When He Seems to be Missing

Editor's Note: The following is a report on the practical applications of Linda Evans Shepherd's book, When You Can’t Find God: How to Ignite the Power of His Presence, (Revell Books, 2011).

Trouble hits everyone in this fallen world. Even Jesus suffered while He was here on Earth, and so will you – no matter how much you love God.

But the presence of trouble in your life doesn’t mean the absence of God. To the contrary: Trouble may actually help you experience the reality of God’s presence in deeper ways, if you respond to it by seeking God.

God is never missing from your life, even when He seems to be. Here’s how you can find God and enjoy His presence, despite the trouble in your life:

Find God in your circumstances. Look at your circumstances from God’s perspective: as an invitation to draw closer to Him. Choose to trust God’s promise that He has a plan to bring good purposes out of even the worst circumstances. Ask God to help you be aware of His presence with you, feel His love for you, show you whatever He wants you to learn from what you’re going through, and anoint you with hope.

Derive the strength to endure from key practices. God will give empower you while you go through tough times if you: root out sin from your life so you’re not blocking God’s work, praise God to invite more joy into your life, seek a closer relationship with God Himself rather than seeking changed circumstances, and focusing on God rather than on your troubles.

Give your troubles to God. God has promised that He will give you rest if you trust Him to handle your burdens, so stop striving to handle them yourself. Instead, give all that’s troubling you over to God and follow His guidance every step of the way to deal with your concerns successfully and peacefully. Keep in mind that the troubles in your life will pale in comparison to the riches you’ll receive as you draw closer to God.

Stand against evil. The evil that exists in our fallen world may cause you suffering that God doesn’t intend for you to go through. So be sure to close any doors in your life through which evil may come. Devoting every part of your life to God every day is the best way to keep evil spiritual forces away from you. Repent and confess of your sins regularly; ask God to help you develop virtues that will mature you (such as humility, patience, and self-control); pray about any hopeless thoughts that enter your  mind, asking God to give you the hope you need; and rejoice in God’s unconditional love and reliable care for you.

Pray against strife. If conflict with other people is causing you trouble, ask God to help you live at peace with everyone, as far as it depends on you. Rely on God’s help to forgive people who have hurt you. Avoid people who continue to cause strife, despite your best efforts to work for peace between you. Surrender any attitudes that cause strife in your own soul (such as bitterness and selfish ambition) to God and embrace His peace in return.

Pray for breakthroughs. When you’re dealing with persistent problems, ask God to help you solve them. Pray about your problems consistently until God brings you breakthroughs – either by changing your circumstances, or by empowering you to handle your circumstances in better ways.

Pray for trust. Rather than trying to make circumstances turn out the way you want them to be, seek what’s best for you, trusting that God truly does know what’s best and will work in your life to bring that about if you invite Him to do so and don’t work against Him.

Pray for grace and favor. Sometimes God will decide to give you an undeserved gift, simply because He loves you and you asked Him to consider it. Make sure that you’re not blocking the work God wants to do in your life by ridding your life of a refusal to repent, strife, fear, envy, selfish ambition, opening doors in your life up for evil to enter, doubt, confusion, presumption, exaggeration, worry, gossip, lies, and a habit of neglecting prayer.

Pray for hope and healing. Seek the hope and healing you need from God by incorporating prayer and Bible reading into your life on a regular basis, and seeking God’s voice constantly. Don’t fail to pray because you’re afraid that you’ll be disappointed by how God chooses to answer. While you can’t predict the specific ways in which God will answer your prayers, you can be sure that God will definitely give you hope and healing in whatever form He decides is best.

Pray for peace. Expect that you’ll often encounter storms in this fallen world, but also expect God to be right beside you in the midst of them. Ask Jesus to give you the peace that only He can give – peace that transcends any kind of circumstances, and that you can experience even without understanding it.

Find joy. Decide to worship God no matter what you happen to go through at any particular moment, because God is worthy of your worship all the time, simply for who He is. The more you focus on worshipping God, the more you’ll become aware of His presence with you, and the more that will bring you joy that you can use to overcome even the most troubling circumstances.

Adapted from When You Can’t Find God: How to Ignite the Power of His Presence, copyright 2011 by Linda Evans Shepherd. Published by Revell Books, a division of Baker Publishing Group, Grand Rapids, Mich., www.revellbooks.com

Linda Evans Shepherd is the author of more than 30 books, including When You Don’t Know What to Pray: How to Talk to God about Anything and When You Can’t Find God: How to Ignite the Power of His Presence, and the coauthor of the popular series The Potluck Club and The Potluck Catering Club. Linda is an international speaker and media personality, and is the creator of RightToTheHeart.tv and appears as a frequent host of “Denver Celebration.”

Whitney Hopler is a freelance writer and editor who serves as both a Crosswalk.com contributing writer and the editor of About.com’s site on angels and miracles (http://angels.about.com/). Contact Whitney at: angels.guide@about.comto send in a true story of an angelic encounter or a miraculous experience like an answered prayer.