Dr. David Archives

Couples they want to rid their relationship of resentment, increase communication and learn to manage conflict. But it takes two!

We all need to be appreciated, and this appreciation helps keep the emotional connection open between couples.

“He’s left and won’t make any commitment to come back,” Meg said sadly, referring to her boyfriend.

We all want to be celebrated, and encouraged, and even a small amount of effort, done in the right way, will reap great rewards.

Being loving extends ourselves, making us larger, kinder and more gracious than we were before.

An affair is perhaps the most painful event that can occur in a marriage, but God is still in control and answers prayers.

Each situation demands that we balance our emotions. This is often easier said than done.

Sometimes you must weather an emotional storm before you can rebuild your marriage. You must view crisis as an opportunity.

‘Making a point’ can be harmful, and when we strive to ‘make a point,’ we often become too intense and prick our mate.

Language and communication are critical aspects of any relationship. When we leave anything unsaid, much of the communication is lost.

Men, as most of you women (and men) know, are not the easiest creatures with whom to make a connection.

‘Turtling’—or withdrawing from conflict—often has a very detrimental impact on the relationship. Of course, so does exploding.

“We can help you repair your marriage,” I said. “It will take humility and hard work. You must let go of pride and stubbornness.”

At nearly every intersection in a relationship, especially the tense touch points, you have that choice: wound or heal.

When we think about infidelity, our minds rush to a sexual affair. But there are many forms of unfaithfulness, including monetary.