Marriage Update Archives

The danger of a marriage—or any relationship—that is centered around compromise is the inevitable weaving of selfishness into the paradigm. I’m not...

So, when your mate unintentionally disappoints you, make room for your emotions. But please notice that this doesn't mean throwing your feelings at...

What does sexual commitment actually look like once we’ve been together for a while? Here are 3 myths about married sex that Christians...

Emotional cheating is a close (often secretive) intimate relationship with someone other than your spouse. It is different from a normal, healthy...

Inviting these friends into life and doing life with them adds to life so that it is not just the two of you doing life; rather, there is a...

Many couples swear by weekly date nights. Date nights help couples view each other as lovers, not merely parents or roommates. They help fizzle out...

Almost everyone has some blame they should own up to. And it may be more than you’ve admitted to yourself, or to him.

If you are anything like me, I have to summon all my willpower to ward off the itch to correct and redirect my husband. I have my own set of rules...

Every couple goes through different circumstances and has to prioritize what is best for them. I simply want to share four blessings I have found...

Here are seven steps that could enhance the possibility of saving a marriage on the brink of divorce.

Life is full of things that add up to stress. How we handle the emotion of it all makes or breaks us as individuals and as a couple.

It's important to let your husband know that you’re not only thinking of him, but you’re thinking highly of him.

I was emotionally bleeding all over the place without any boundaries about who to tell what. This caused me to tell unsafe people about the...

My husband confessed that he was addicted to pornography and had been since childhood. I was devastated. I wasn’t sure I could ever trust him...

Making an intentional effort to regularly bring presents to one’s spouse, family, children, or friend with this love language can tell them “I love...