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10 Point Godly Spouse Checklist for Women

  • Sue Schlesman Contributing Writer
10 Point Godly Spouse Checklist for Women

If you’re a single gal, you may have a mental checklist for finding a godly husband. Maybe you wrote it in your teens, when you did a Bible study on dating and marriage at youth group. Maybe you’ve been on a lot of disappointing dates, and the “what I don’t want” list has been writing itself.

When my husband was trying to get me to go out with him on a date, he asked me, “What are you looking for in a guy?”

I wasn’t sure about him yet, so I answered playfully, “Tall, dark, and handsome.”

Being short in stature, he responded, “How’s two out of three?”

The rest is history. (Eventually, I pulled out my other list.)

The Bible says, “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.” If you want a good guy who’s following God’s direction, you’re going to have to be judicious and gracious. We’re all on a journey to godliness; don’t look for the perfect guy (he doesn’t exist)—look for a guy on the path toward perfection in Christ. Look through this 10-point checklist for finding a godly spouse (or becoming a godly spouse):

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