Training Our Children
From a young age, children observe the behavior of the significant adults in their lives. What a wonderful opportunity to influence the next generation for Jesus!
How do we train children in godliness? We start by investing our time in their lives. Boys and girls need their parents and others to spend quality time with them. Whether it's through outdoor activities, reading together, or quiet conversation, we can be modeling Christian living.
Listening closely is another part of raising our sons and daughters. To influence them toward righteousness, we must know what they are thinking—in other words, what's important to them and what bothers them.
Protecting children through discipline is another aspect of godly parenting. When done with love, this will help them understand the wisdom of God's boundaries and the importance of self-control.
Admitting our mistakes is also necessary, as transparency helps children draw closer to parents. If we seem perfect, kids will find it harder to confess their mistakes to us.
Perhaps the most important aspect of training is unconditional love. My mother consistently loved me both when I had success in school and when I didn't. Because of her steadfast care for me, I tried to do what she would find pleasing.
Raising a godly child takes the cooperation of believing parents and family, Christian teachers, and born-again friends. Look for opportunities to spend time with children, listen to their hearts, and demonstrate Christ's love for them. By modeling godliness, you may influence a life for the Lord.
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