Dr. David B. Hawkins

God does not honor the abusive man and that she is to be treated always with dignity and honor. I’m certain her responses are cries for help.

Katherine was being made the scapegoat for her husband’s abusive behavior. Many are routinely scapegoated—bearing blame they don't deserve.

We cannot determine what must be changed without assessing the impact of the damage done to us.

We cannot simply wish to change; we must be determined to change and know exactly what it is that must be changed.

Scripture tells us the truth will set us free, yet I’m constantly amazed at how reluctant we are to actually face truth.

Scripture tells us very clearly that in this life we will have crises. However, we are told that problems and crises can make us stronger.

Do you want change in your marriage? If you’re like most of us, you want change but don’t really want to work for it.

Before seeking any change it is important to be clear about the issues. What is bothering you and why?

Many couples fight about the same things over and over again, eventually leading one or the other to consider separation.

We, as Christians, cannot tolerate emotional abuse or we have become complicit in that very abuse.

We, as Christians, cannot tolerate emotional abuse or we have become complicit in that very abuse.

You’ve probably heard it said, “Your capacity to experience joy is equivalent to your capacity to experience sadness and hurt.” I believe it is...

While listening to your mate’s day may seem trivial, every caring conversation, strung together like pearls, can add up to a meaningful...

When we think about infidelity, our minds rush to a sexual affair. But there are many forms of unfaithfulness, including monetary.

Have you ever noticed yourself becoming irritated, only to be puzzled later as to why you were bothered?

We all long to be heard and understood. There is nothing quite like the sensation of having someone sit with us while we share our heart.

It sounds easy enough. Sit back, consider what you need and ask for it. This is far more difficult than it sounds.

Emotional abuse is an epidemic in marriages today. It is not limited to physical abuse, but includes emotional power and control.