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Living Free - Feb. 5, 2008

  • 2008 Feb 05


Today's Scripture
Discipline your children while there is hope. Otherwise you will ruin their lives. Proverbs 19:18 NLT

Thoughts for Today
Well-meaning parents, grandparents, teachers, and clergy—as well as school and government systems—often become enablers by softening or eliminating the natural consequences of their child’s, student’s or constituent’s behavior.

In yesterday’s devotion we discussed Raymond, whose drug problem ended in tragedy. That entire process and the resulting tragedy affected many lives.

Raymond developed a serious drug problem by the time he was 15. His parents, instead of drawing boundaries and seeking much needed help for their son, focused on protecting him from the natural consequences of his wrongdoing. When the school principal presented evidence that Raymond was selling marijuana, Ray’s parents lashed out at the school and threatened a lawsuit.

In one year’s time, Raymond was arrested five times for driving under the influence of alcohol. Each time his parents bailed him out of jail, giving him “one more chance.” The other children were neglected. The marriage ended in divorce. Their kind of “helping” had only perpetuated Raymond’s behavior and had turned into pain for the entire family.

Consider this…
If someone you love is struggling with a life-controlling problem, you can help by setting boundaries, by using tough love. Prayerfully seek out counseling. And trust God to help you through the maze.

Father, teach me to set boundaries for my love one and to respond to wrong behaviors with tough love—and please give me the strength to follow through. In Jesus’ name …

These thoughts were drawn from…
Understanding the Times
by Dr. Jimmy Ray Lee. This book offers a wealth of biblical strategies for ministry to our family and friends. Contemporary issues and needs faced by society are addressed with biblical principles that are timeless. Also ideal for small group leaders and Sunday school teachers who want a better understanding of ministry in an addictive culture.  


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