10 Ways To Make Special Occasions Special

Kenny Luck

Why do special occasions seem to provide people, even Christians, with a supposed license to sin? We see it in movies, popularizing wedding Hangovers and among Bridesmaids and Wedding Singers: Or closer to home, the uncle who drinks too much at family gatherings. It feels like holidays, when boiled down to reality, become nothing more than occasions to indulge for so many.

I’m not prude, and I realize Jesus turned water into wine for wedding guests. But I don’t think he was condoning over-doing it as a form of celebration. Think about it with me, here is a quick list of occasions that our culture has glamorized with not-so special behaviors, giving us a mysterious hall pass from morality:

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We often justify these occasions by giving ourselves an extra measure of grace, which can turn into over indulgence, gluttony and debauchery.

The Bible clearly calls out these behaviors. God wants us to have a sound, sober mind to help protect us from the enemy, as written in I Peter 5:8. Our bodies are considered temples of God according to I Corinthians 6:19 and we should offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God, Romans 12:1.

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God wants us to celebrate and enjoy the blessings He’s giving us, but in a way that honors Him and each other with self-control. Remember all good things come from God. Good foods, good wine, good friends, good progress, good character.

When you go into these celebrations, don’t leave Jesus behind. Go into special occasions as a lighthouse, being a properly calibrated ambassador among people who do not share your faith.

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10 Ways to Make Special Occasions Special

  1. Reminisce past experiences (Philippians 4:8)
  2. Make the meal the hero. Savor the flavors and experience of a unique restaurant.
  3. Take in the ambience and the moment of a unique venue.
  4. Enjoy LIVE music and dance joyfully.
  5. Capture the moments with photography.
  6. Catch up with people, finding out what’s really going on in their lives.
  7. Recognize people for their efforts in fun ways, and unique awards. Propose a toast, with the purpose of giving a blessing, instead of a healthy pour.
  8. Respectful roasting with humor, served up in grace and love. Use storytelling to recap significant moments.
  9. Think of what can I give or bring, rather than what can I get out of this occasion?
  10. Celebrate with a new tradition. Think of activities that get the guys (or gals) moving, i.e. hiking, ski trips, pick-up basketball games, beach bonfires.

Practical Tips for a Sober Celebration

Remember, God is not a kill-joy and following Him is not a drag. Sometimes we need to say no to say yes. Perhaps the hardest times to follow Him are during the celebrations of life when the world is saying, “treat yourself, have more.” But remember Jesus said in John 6:35, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.”

*As the founder and president of Every Man Ministries, Kenny Luck’s experience as the men’s pastor at Saddleback Church helped him to create the blueprint for a men’s ministry. Tools, tips, and resources are at men’s fingertips with the Sleeping Giant program. Watch Kenny’s teachings at EveryManMinistries.com.

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