Marriage Update Archives

God designed us dads a bit differently than you moms. And while what we do may frustrate you at times, our differences can be a really good thing.

Sexual abuse in marriage is not something that is readily disclosed or discussed. It feels shameful to admit, even to yourself.

Perhaps I should say it like this: we all marry the “wrong” person.

We all know the stories of people who stayed in toxic relationships because they couldn’t bring themselves to end things. How do you know when it’s...

How can couples be sure to draw close to one another for comfort during grief, rather than drifting apart or withdrawing in silence?

What does the rising generation of young evangelicals think about marriage? Here's the troubling truth.

If the woman you are dating is exhibiting one of these 10 worrisome characteristics, think twice before you ask her to marry you.

There is a moment when a conversation becomes a fight. Every couple has got to understand when and why that ‘shift’ takes place.

Just as important as it is find someone who is marriage material, it’s important to look inward and be sure we meet our own standards!

In my marriage and in your marriage and in every marriage, there is already the seed of divorce. But will we water the seed?

What do you want people to remember about your love story? Are you watching over the little things in your life?

These small steps can lead to the death of a marriage. Many of us engage in these behaviors without realizing the dangers they pose!

Although many are harmed by a husband’s struggle with pornography, no one is harmed more than his wife. How does a pastor care and counsel a wife...

Over the years, through counseling training and actual counseling—and learning from my wife—I’ve observed some things. And I’ve realized some men...

How do I distinguish between a wall I keep walking into and a boundary that allows me to walk in light and freedom?