Marriage Update Archives

These small steps can lead to the death of a marriage. Many of us engage in these behaviors without realizing the dangers they pose!

Although many are harmed by a husband’s struggle with pornography, no one is harmed more than his wife. How does a pastor care and counsel a wife...

Over the years, through counseling training and actual counseling—and learning from my wife—I’ve observed some things. And I’ve realized some men...

How do I distinguish between a wall I keep walking into and a boundary that allows me to walk in light and freedom?

The moment we knew that the Lord brought us together in his presence was a moment that will stay with us forever.

At 19, I had an affair with a married man. Since then, I have learned more about the powerful force of deception and how Satan uses it for his...

Passionate and steamy are usually the LAST words people think of when they hear the words, “married sex” but I wouldn't agree!

These are the top four phrases a husband can say to his wife to put action behind the words, "I love you."

Because of the differences in personalities, you may find yourself speaking a totally different language than your spouse!

A good marriage doesn’t deteriorate overnight. It diminishes gradually. Here are the 5 most common reasons that this happens.

Since it is so vitally important to families, how can we make sure that we are communicating effectively?

Often shame and guilt keep us from reaching out to God—or anyone else—even when our marriages are about to hit rock bottom.

The Bible tells us to rescue the oppressed, the needy, and the downtrodden—to do justice and righteousness to those who suffer.

Countless selfless clergy couples run to the side of others in need to give God’s love. Here's how to love them in return!

Dear Roger, After 23 years of marriage and three very godly kids, my husband cheated on me. I need to know that God will discipline him.