He Said/She Said Archives

A reader writes, "I'm looking for the truth about the challenges of dating someone who has formerly struggled with substance abuse."

He feels it was "wrong" to be together and I feel that it is "wrong" to be apart. Is God talking to one, both, or neither of us?

I don't want to care for his disabled family, but I know God wants me to be self-sacrificial. Should I marry him?

A reader ask, "Am I too young to be in a relationship? Should I wait for him to say something, or should I tell him how I feel?"

A reader is suspicious of his girlfriend, who keeps mementos from past relationships. Read inside for what our columnists think!

If I'm in a long distance relationship-type situation, is it wrong for me to focus on trying to build my career at this time?

A reader asks, "If I want a particular trait in my future spouse, should I stick to my guns? Or are my standards unrealistic?"

There seems to be a gray area on sex-after-divorce because we aren't meant to divorce at all. What if I don't intend to remarry?

In the past I had inappropriate relationships...and now I have an STD. Do you think God will still bless me with a husband?

With the high percentage of divorce, we should probably seek to be more complete prior to entering into a relationship.

What's the difference between genuinely seeking and following God's lead in relationships, and merely creating my own destiny?

A woman writes of her boyfriend, "I've caught him multiple times staring at pretty girls and I can't help but feel hurt..."

I'm 46 years old. I would really like to get married, but I feel like I don't know how to date anymore. Help!

Is celibacy and singleness ever really a "gift"? Read our the response of our columnists on this edition of "He Said, She Said."

"I want to date, but it seems that between my jobs, church, and school there aren't many options. How do I find someone?"