He Said/She Said Archives

"My parents can't understand my calling to be so active in the church," one reader shares. Read the rest inside!

"As a Christian, is it wrong to date someone after your buddy dates her? Could it be seen as covetous? I don't want to upset him."

Is the advice, "the best friendships make the best marriages" sound? Find out in today's edition of He Said-She Said.

My friends set me up with a guy from church, but I really don't like him. How do I handle this gracefully?

A reader wonders, "Does a seeming lack of interest indicate a red flag for our relationship? Or do I just need to be patient?"

"The fact he dismissed me as 'wife material' after seeing me 3 times seems absurd. He's not even interested in being my friend?"

"As a Christian, how do I know if it’s “my fault” or if I’m just waiting on the Lord?" one reader wonders. Read more inside!

"Am I belittling him if I initiate a conversation about love? I really want to respect him as a man and not pressure him..."

Does the Bible instruct us on how to respond to verbally abusive family members, such as children?

I'm not attracted to my boyfriend, but if he's the "perfect man" otherwise, should I marry him anyway and wait for romance to grow?

A reader asks, "My parents see too many objections to ever approve of my desire to marry my boyfriend. What do I do?"

"How can a man of integrity manage a relationship when he doesn’t have enough money? Could poverty be God’s call into celibacy?"

A reader admits, "I truly love my boyfriend, but I somehow get the sense God has other plans. Why do I still cling? Please help."

A reader laments, "after my parents divorced my life took a downward spiral...I've never had a healthy relationship."

A reader writes: "Am I expected to put in a little work, or will my future spouse just 'fall into my lap'…?"